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  • Must love food. Be adventurous. Picky-eaters are no fun. Can't try new things like live octopus!
  • Have ambition. You don't have to know exactly where you'll be in five years, but at least strive to be the best whatever your goals are.
  • Enjoy wordplay. Seriously, the more puns, the better. We would make an awesome crossword team for those lazy Sunday afternoons. You know what would really send me over the edge? Dominating at Cranium, Taboo, and other team-related board games.
  • Thoughtful surprises. If you ever decide to buy me tickets to a show, I will never forget you. My BMFF bought me Radiohead tickets for my birthday. Just try to top that! ;) Even a grilled cheese sandwich on my car is welcomed.
  • Know how to banter. There's only a few people that I can do this with and without having to explain myself when I slip a "strumpet" or "trollop."
  • Be passionate about something. I love it when guys want to share and teach you about their interests and hobbies. Into videogames? Find a co-op.
  • Dress well. A guy doesn't need to know the difference between Alexander Wang and Vera Wang, but do understand proper fit, especially towards suits.
  • Don't fiddle with your phone. This applies to anyone. I really don't like it when people are distracted by their smart phones. If you can have a conversation or dinner with touching your phone, I'll just hand my heart over now.
  • Using my name often as an appositive. This causes instant melting, and you could probably diffuse a tense moment. "Connie, this song is amazing!" or "You're the best, Connie!" We have names, and we should use it more often.
dec 12 2010 ∞
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