↱ life ↲

• concept: not everyone you meet is a lesson. not everyone hurts you just so you could learn to heal yourself. most of them come with hatchets and hammers and none of them come with gauze, none of them come with Band-Aids or a sewing kit. listen to me, not every pain you feel is part of a bigger plan to force you to learn. stop forgiving people for hurting you because you think they helped you grow. you helped yourself grow. you put all your limbs back in place, put your heart back inside your broken ribs and stitched your own chest up. it was all you. stop giving people who hurt you credit for things they do not deserve.
• my happiness is mine and no one has the right to take it away.
• crying and blaming yourself will do you no good. learn from your mistakes and get the fuck up.
• life’s a cycle of ups and downs so when you feel like you’ve hit rock bottom, everything’s going to be better soon.
• it’s okay if they don’t treat you well. what matters is that you treat them well.
• don't depend on others for your problems; they've had enough of their own.
• stop focusing on others. you've done your best, and that's all that matters.
• there's always someone weirder than you out there, remember that.

↱ relationships ↲

• just because you miss someone, doesn't mean you need them back in your life. missing is just a part of moving on.

↱ anger ↲

• bad feelings don't go away instantly. take your time, darling.
• even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise.
• dissing the bully isn’t going to solve the problem. you’re basically following their steps.