- if you want to dance, then say "wanna dance?" or "let's dance!" or "shall we dance" or some form of asking
- don't even think of walking up behind me and just grinding your way over. i will walk away
- no namecalling if a girl walks away from you. you probably creeped up on her. deal with it
- when grinding back-to-front, your hands go on my hips and nowhere else. if i want your hands on my ass, then i'll put them there. if i want your hands under my shirt, same thing
- if we're grinding front-to-front, your hands go on my back. putting them on my thighs is pushing it. hands off the ass
- if we're doing ballroom or social dance, fix your frame, have tone in your arms, and hold my hand properly. keep your hand at the level of my chin and neither grip it too tight nor hold it in a lax manner
- when grinding, grind back and give some resistance. if i fall because your body isn't giving back some force, then i won't dance with you again. in fact, you shouldn't even be grinding
- unless you know what you're doing, let me lead the grinding
- in ballroom and social dance, you better know what you're doing. there's no way in hell i'm leading you when i'm supposed to respond to your movements
- be clean, smell nice, don't be beyond tipsy, and be as much of a gentleman as you possibly can whether you're grinding or gliding on the dance floor
apr 8 2009 ∞
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