- alexandra
- aries sun, libra moon, gemini rising
- infj
- gryffindor
- 25
- fierce pride of, and loyalty to, harry styles
- 5'4
- though soft-spoken, they have very strong opinions and will fight tirelessly for an idea they believe in
- they tend to believe that nothing would help the world so much as using love and compassion to soften the hearts of tyrants
- need time alone to decompress and recharge, and to not become too alarmed when they suddenly withdraw
- take great care of other’s feelings, and they expect the favor to be returned – sometimes that means giving them the space they need for a few days.
- have a fluid, inspirational writing style that appeals to the inner idealist in their audience. can even be astonishingly good orators, speaking with warmth and passion, if they are proud of what they are speaking for
- are highly vulnerable to criticism and conflict, and questioning their motives is the quickest way to their bad side.
- tend to present themselves as the culmination of an idea. this is partly because they believe in this idea, but also because they are extremely private when it comes to their personal lives, using this image to keep themselves from having to truly open up, even to close friends.
- are all but defined by their pursuit of ideals. while this is a wonderful quality in many ways, an ideal situation is not always possible – in politics, in business, in romance – and they too often drop or ignore healthy and productive situations and relationships, always believing there might be a better option down the road.
- not ones for casual encounters, people with the this personality type instead look for depth and meaning in their relationships.
- people with this personality type aren’t easily talked into something they don’t want, and if someone doesn’t pick up on that, it’s a trespass that is unlikely to be forgiven, particularly in the early stages of dating
- people with this personality type are unlikely to go for friendships of circumstance, like workplace social circles or chatting up their local baristas, where the only thing they really have in common is a day-to-day familiarity
- from the start, it can be a challenge to get to know them, as they are very private, even enigmatic.
- don’t readily share their thoughts and feelings, not unless they are comfortable, and since those thoughts and feelings are the basis for their friendships, it can take time and persistence to get to know them
- don’t require a great deal of day-to-day attention – for them, quality trumps quantity every time, and over the years they will likely end up with just a few true friendships, built on a richness of mutual understanding that forges an indelible link between them.
- struggle to begin a career early on because they see ten wildly different paths forward, each with its own intrinsic rewards, alluring but also heartbreaking, because each means abandoning so much else
- they will need to step back and act the lone wolf from time to time, pursuing their own goals in their own ways
- reserved
- secretive
- generous and sympathetic
- loves peace and serenity
- sensitive to others
- easily angered
- trustworthy
- appreciative and returns kindness
- hardly shows emotions
- tends to bottle up feelings
- observant and assesses others
jul 6 2015 ∞
apr 2 2022 +
apr 2 2022 +