- you have to be happy with yourself before you ever get involved with someone else.
- if a guy really likes you he won't let anything stand in the way of being with you
- you can't expect a guy to read your mind. tell him what you're upset about.
- make sure you let the other person know what they do that makes you happy. no one likes to hear what they are doing wrong all the time.
- take it slow. what's the rush, really?
- if you break up once then there was a reason for it. it probably won't work later.
- if he's stupid enough to let you go in the first place, he wasn't the one. trust me.
- never ever settle
- guys like to pursue women, so let them.
- desperation is not a turn on. relax a bit.
- guys don't like it when you call them all the time wanting to know where they are and who they're with.
- let them have boys time. he will love you more for it.
- make sure that you both still have your own lives. don't lose yourself in the relationship. remember he fell in love with you, not who you are because of him.
- actions speak much louder than words
- breakups suck. and i know it feels like you will never smile again. i know it feels like you couldn't possibly love someone else again. but i promise the sun will come out one day. you will get past it and be stronger for it.
- learn the little lessons along the way
- if he thinks of you as his "best friend" and that's all and you can't figure out why...hes just not that into you.
- friends with benefits NEVER works. EVER.
- every man you have ever dated who has said he doesn't want to get married or doesn't believe in marriage will someday be married. It just will never be with you. sorry.
- when you first break up with someone, STOP talking to them. it's too hard. especially if the breakup wasn't mutual. you can try again one day when your feelings fade.
- on another note...staying friends with an ex rarely ever works out. it's a nice idea in theory.
- remember, the only reason he can miss you is because he's choosing, every day, not to be with you.
- don't get distracted by the physical
- there is a guy out there who is going to be really really happy that you didn't get back together with your shitty ex boyfriend.
- LOVE YOURSELF MORE
- be ok with being alone.
- stop looking for love. let it find you.
- no matter how powerful and real your feelings may be for someone, if that person doesn't feel the same way and therefore actively love you back, these feelings mean nothing.
- never ever cut yourself off from your friends. they are the only ones who will be there for you when you fall.
- don't be afraid to get rejected. everyone is scared.
- if you are thinking it, chances are so are they.
- see whats really there and not what you want to see
may 5 2009 ∞
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