what does the basic dni criteria consist of? a dni is usually a list containing the stereotypical, societal idea of someone who exhibits bigotry. however, in my own personal opinion, i would say the standardized do not interact criteria is if you're:

  • racist; anti-black, antisemitic, islamphobic, xenophobic, etc.
  • sexist/misogynistic, this includes against trans women
  • lgbtphobic; homophobia, transphobia, lesbiphobia, biphobia, etc.
    • transmeds/truscums
    • "inclustionists" (are or support mspec lesbians)
    • terfs
  • ableist (including those who are against self diagnosis)
  • pro-shippers
dec 19 2021 ∞
aug 8 2024 +

a mastery list of my own personal criteria. information on here is regularly updated, removed or added based upon my own personal beliefs, preferences and views. please do not interact if you:

  • share your sexual life unprovoked, this includes sexual fantasies, fetishes and other inherently sexual parts of your life
  • justify any taboo kinks, fetishes, fantasies and/or harmful ideologies revolving around sexual interactions
  • politically identify as a republican, conservation or agree with any of the ideologies within those parties
  • associate yourself with other individuals who use slurs they cannot reclaim or you yourself use slurs you cannot reclaim
  • associate yourself with other individuals who are openly transphobic or purposely misgender transgender people
  • frequent usage of the r-slur (even if you...
feb 8 2023 ∞
jul 25 2024 +

do not interact if you have transphobic ideation or are outright transphobic, this includes:

  • against lesbians and gays who identify outside of the normality of gendered pronouns
  • against xenogenders and neopronouns
  • disrespect or against nonbinary identities
  • disrespect/make fun of the way other transgender individuals identify
  • believe pronouns = gender
  • trans-exclusionary radical feminist (terfs)
    • or any branch of feminism that excludes trans women
    • or claim that trans women are not women; this includes those who are 'neutral' on transmisogyny and transphobia
  • believe it's unproblematic to interact or be friends with people who are transphob...
jan 28 2023 ∞
oct 2 2023 +

do not interact if you believe that fiction has no affect on reality, this includes:

  • justify incestual relationships
  • justify pedophilia or grooming
  • participate or justify in the sexualization of minors
  • justify abusive and unhealthy relationships
  • justify zoophilia

this is not necessarily a 1:1 however it is still important to recognize and acknowledge how this can affect our lives

jan 28 2023 ∞
oct 2 2023 +

inspiration was taken from a now formerly archived listography

please be critical of your interests, beliefs, and actions. nothing is inherently perfect or good, ensure you are being mindful of the source material. we as humans are inherently political, and so is the media we consume in one way or another

oct 2 2023 ∞
oct 2 2023 +