Tenure - homestretch - Counterproductive Strong education

Cultured - elitist Fashion cutouts Chamma chamma Kaneesha.com myxer.com Bharosa -trust Yakeen - believe Vishvaas - faith I generally appreciate my own thoughtfulness Be more proactive It doesn't matter if they're not who you want them to be How to treat facial redness Retain the information - Dovetailing Heigl situps Judge - thinking of them in a negative light National association of Legal Assistants Stuck in your ways. •Free your mind - too confined I'm not very emotional or I'm really emotional but I don't like that so I limit my interactions that require me to be emotional Toss - take - save N- pehle (sangam) R - badme (party) Flourescent light is my enemy Aristocratic face - pompous and egoistic ___________________________________________________________________

Self sabotage Clairvoyance

100,000 - lakh Mybhod.com bollygrounds.com Fat - msg, cheese puffs/ balls

Katrina's outfits in APKGK Moong dal ke pakode Prasad, mishri, sompfh Manali - himachal pradesh - shimla Guilty conscience __________________________________________________________ Bachelors. Masters. Phd. Doctorate A lot of people's greatest asset is being a nice girl

LISTO German, french, italian, english, romanch

Self aware, self absorbed, self assured Olalliberry - mulberry - black raspberry Melodramatic overhyped Compulsive/perpetual/habitual liar Judgement is impaired -----

U+P - 817382 Gu - ta|k2Robert Spend his entire life trying to seek my approval You pick up the slack You don't want to be rejected

Nosebleed •set a budget Shopping Gas Eating out Groceries401 K questions

• fee for ira
• what is rollover?
• pre tax, after tax

Bank questions: Minimum requirement in savings acct? How many withdrawals per month allowed? What are fees charged r? Penalties for withdrawals? Checking: requirements or totally free? For ex: must have direct deposit? Credit report: soft pull or hard pull?

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Fatties: Rachie, susan cherian, tammy, jenny, christeen r, gigi, dawson's daughters, agnes, vidya balan, kelly clarkson, jessica simpson, amy poehler, ann (her?), marshall, mariah carey, Aishwarya Rai post marriage NON: Giada, heidi klum, giselle, kourtney k, angelina, julie bowen, betty draper, erin pare, karishma k, kajol, j.lo, claudia, cindy crawford, zoe saldana, anna paquin, erin berry, casey thompson, leslie mann, denise richards, Gretchen, dresses, origami top, white shirt, thanksgiving, my face, my jaw, my cheeks, my european body, tummy ___________________________

Physique - height, built, everything Aishwarya - epitome of grace, feminine, a lady and she gets treated like one - one of the guys. Get in there and have fun

Chat papdi - Papad, red onion, chickpeas, aloo, dahi, tamarind sauce, green chutney, mixture

Kusheri - Abou Tarek (cairo, egypt) Pumps and dress: much more of a professional look, want to be taken seriously look, more stern, more rigid and like armour where as dresses are more flirty. Open toed is more - open, more welcoming Cold hearted snake, need to let go, need to be more forgiving

Integrate into the culture:

Medici in florence - patrons of his work Seething with resentment over the incident Changing your personality to fit some girl Stay short and concise

Quagmire Stalwurt

Crazy, jealous and paranoid - ted mosby architect episodÃÃciopath - con artist

"You have your shit together, mature, smart, funny, really pretty" - Bribri I initiated it, he's not gonna say no to a girl that showed interest in him, he thinks that being nice is what's gonna get me - that I'll like him I can't talk to you - I can't carry on a conversation with you - no chemistry. too safe - conformist - not smooth - no interest in his interests Wasting $$ while working: eating out, shopping after bc no work clothes, for outfits, to copy someones outfit, groceries for lunch, breakfast, unecessary jewelry, shopping cravings bc of bad days etc ears pierced at 19 - can't go back to athens greece - used to be a bad kid - haven't talked to bro in 9.yrs ; used to be fat - Soda, fast food, doritos, cheez balls, little debbie snacks, entemann's, donuts, ice cream, snickers chocolates

Networking tactic, take something with me to other states etc, versatile, admin Bartender: circumstantial hotness Funny, smart, passionate, challenging

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QUOTES FROM RANDOM PLACES - Well said

• Alabaster skin
• Thick, perfect head of hair
• Marathon study session at the law library
• Overeager, if not desperate
• Not Until I get to where I want to be in life
• Only unfulfilled love can be romantic - Vicky Christina Barcelona
• I'd rather be smart than a movie star. - Natalie Portman
• This was a dalliance, a cheap affair. You don't want to run away with me; you just want to run away. You're a coward! - Rachel Menken Mad Men
• He wasn't shy, I liked that - Betty Mad Men
• Everytime you jump to conclusions, Tom, you make me respect you less - Pete from Mad Men
• I say this with an unblemished record of staunch heterosexuality
• You seem very concerned with the price of things
• Twitter: just a constant stream of meaningless babble
• This is a rumor-filled society and if people want to sit around and talk about whom I've dated, then I'd say they have a lot of spare time and should consider other topics... or masturbation. Johnny Depp
• I don't want to be limited by other people's opinions. - Johnny Depp
• You're extremely sexy but you're not afraid to be really silly too - Conan to Eva Mendes
• The greater the pressure, the dumber you feel - David Letterman
• You're supposed to be the leading lady in your own life, for goodness sakes! - Kate Winslet 'The Holiday'
• All women are lesbians and all men are mysoginists
• It's one thing to hear about it, it's another to actually see it - Manmeet Outsourced
• I like to hone in, focus - Neil Caffrey from White Collar
• Not everyone is a Liz Lemon but there is a Liz Lemon in everyone - Brishti
• Do you not care or do you not care to argue about it? - Khloe K to Bruce regarding the last name change
• I have a tremendous newfound sense of self-worth - Eric Matthews Boy Meets World
• To be somebody special is a quality from within - Mr. Feeny
• Learned everything I knew practicing on her - Hard Candy
• I don't like it when people make their insecurities apparent - Joanna
• Dress for the job you want, not the job you have. All right. You can use your clothing to send a message about your ambitions by wearing clothes that reflect what you aspire to be. - Jan Levinson

QUOTES ABOUT CHARACTER ANALYSIS

• Someone who doesn't know themselves very well needs other people's opinions for reassurance. Classic example: I would never ask someones advice on what to wear, bc I alone know what I want to look like, and what I'm going for. Other ppls opinions is allowing them to tamper their vision on me. Ppl who don't know what they want need opinions
• You don't have the power enough to upset me. You don't matter enough to upset me - The Reader
• You push people away before they have a chance to leave you - Good Will Hunting
• Why do I fall in love with every woman I see who shows me the least bit of attention? - Joel in Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
• "I think jealous people can see it in their own lives to cheat" - Sarah Silverman on the Marriage Ref
• Trying too hard, always making these jokes. You come off a little needy - Phoebe about Chandler
• I don't mess with you because I don't think you can take it. You're not strong enough - Janitor to Sunny
• You choose who you want to be - Lisbeth Salander
• Constantly trying to validate herself so she'll sleep with anyone - Dr. Molly Clock
• Because we're human and it's wired into us - Clinton Kelly
• Do you use comedy to deflect people? - Clinton Kelly
• Not everybody wants to have sex with you, okay? Especially when you act like a slut. FU. Well, it makes you seem insecure and desperate. - Joni 'The Kids are Alright'
• You see, in poker, as in business, the key to success is to determine your opponents strength and, more importantly, his weaknesses. Everyone has a tell. A weakness of character, that manifest himself physically. Like when Lutz has a good hand, he stops eating. When Frank is bluffing, he asks a series of inane questions to hide his nervousness. - Jack Donaghy 30 Rock
• Your ability to hide your true feelings is part of your great strength! - Kenneth Parcel to Jack Donaghy
• Hardness is always supported by a fragile background - Mad Men article
• You can't brush off failure, but you can't let it drag you down either. - Imran Khan
• She's very different from what I expected. First few times, she was very quiet, very reserved and I though she was a kind of a cold person. As you spend a little bit more time with her, she takes time to open up, she warms up to you, which is kind of like how I am too. She's a really cool, really chill person. - Imran Khan about Katrina Kaif
• I think certain people feel the need to protect what is important to them and what is personal to them purely because they cannot handle other people's opinions. They can barely handle their own life. I can just about handle my own personal life, just about, without other people's opinions, and comments and whatever else that's coming my way. So the more you open yourself up to those kind of speculations, I just think I'd crumble. I'd have a nervous breakdown, fall apart and die. - Katrina Kaif
• I have to be tied down and chased to even get an interview. Its not something I enjoy. It's not really my thing. - Katrina Kaif
• Beauty and brains is a lethal combination in a woman - about Katrina Kaif
• "And not a single person in the extra critical, highly competitive, super bitchy world of Bollywood has anything nasty to say about the desi Barbie Doll. How did she do it? Well, if one discounts the Salman factor, I'd say she's got to where she has because she happens to be extraordinarily smart! Plus, hardworking, disciplined and pleasant at all times. Had that not been the case, would she have been able to juggle her career, all those besotted men in her life, her fans and family.... why her daily routine which by any standards is exceedingly punishing? All this, minus stress, minus tantrums, minus attitude, minus scandal. Managing Salman is in itself a major feat. That she has done so even after the break–up of their intimate relationship (something she refused to acknowledge publicly) says a lot about her capacity to handle her emotional life very shrewdly displaying rare maturity and grace." - by Shobhaa De in article What makes Katrina Kaif the smartest actor? 7/25/2011
• She doesn't want to be with him, but she still wants the attention from him - Farzi abt. Neha
• She's with him because she doesn't think she can get anyone else. She has really low self exteem - Farzi about Compulsive Liar
• I hate it when girls just melt into their boyfriends - Aruny
• A lot of these guys lead with their money to offset their insecurity - Patty Stanger in Millionare Matchmaker
• Moreover, I have boundary issues. Or maybe that's not fair to say. To have issues with boundaries, one must have boundaries in the first place, right? But I disappear into the person I love. I'm the permeable membrane. If I love you, you can have everything. You can have my time, my devotion, my ass, my money, my family, my dog, my dog's money, my dog's time - everything. If I love you, I will carry for you all your pain, I will assume for you all your debts (in every definition of the word), I will protect you from your own insecurities, I will project upon you all sorts of good qualities that you have never actually cultivated in yourself and I will buy Christmas presents for your entire family. I will give you the sun and the rain, and if they are not available, I will give you a sun check and a rain check. I will give you all this and more, until I get so exhausted and depleted that the only way I can recover my energy is by becoming infatuated with someone else. - Eat Love Pray Pg. 65
• Instrument you use to keep vivian uncomfortable/jealous
• He knows how to con you - what to say, what not to say
• He has to Learn something
• He gets off the hook way too easy - has to learn something
• Yeah, but it will happen when it's supposed to happen. You shouldn't be afraid to tell me something because something good's happening for you. Why would I ever not want something good to happen for you. -- Khloe when Kim told her she's pregnant
• I end up hanging out with people that I don't even want to hang out with just to kill time. -- Scott about being away from Kourtney and the kids
• It seems to me you're the kind of men who don't feel bound to conform to the conventions of normal social behavior - Boyd Crowder
• Look to your inner self for the reassurance you need. True validation does not come from external sources.

ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS

• I have a very sophisticated screening process - Ross
• When your wondering what to say, or how you look... just remember... she is already out with you. That means, she said yes, when she could've said no. That means she made a plan... when she could've just blown you off. So that means it is no longer your job to make her like you... It's is your job NOT TO MESS IT UP - Hitch
• Relationships that start from intense circumstances never last - Speed
• Talk about something when there is something to talk about - Me
• “Everyone likes witty and funny/smart people, but the tone should stay lighthearted — no one likes people who are too aggressive in their opinions or use vulgar language, gestures or anecdotes.” In other words, it’s OK to let your inner Lisa Lampanelli out…but wait until after you’ve gotten to know someone first. - an article
• If I have to worry about what you're upto, something's not right. I clearly don't trust you and I'm not sure if you deserve my trust.
• I need to be fine with being alone and then I can be in a relationship.
• Figure out who you are outside of the relationship
• Every guy I choose to be in a relationship with has to be someone I see a future with - otherwise its not worth me putting myself out there emotionally for.
• Wasn't comfortable with the constraints of being in a relationship. Most important thing to Holly was her independence - Breakfast at Tiffany book club Seinfeld
• Good sex just hides everything that's bad in a relationship - Tell me You Love Me
• When it comes to dating, you don't like to be challenged mentally.
• Intelligence, character, morals
• Hate befriending girls bc they're such 2 faced
• describe the nature of your love to delight her
• Im really bad when it comes to looking someone in the eye and telling them the truth about how I feel. I don't deal with my emotions. Its too scary. I just push it to the side
• Time will realize that its all for the best. I made a decision, I need to stick to it - Aiysha over breakup decision

ABOUT MARRIAGE

• You don't appreciate each other anymore and you run out of things to say after the first year - about marriage
• Marriage is like football - once you're down, it doesn't matter how many people pile on. - Jerry Seinfeld on The Tonight Show (about having cats that he doesn't like)
• I feel like I'm disappointing you all the time - Mr. Big
• A wedding is in no way indicative of a marriage. People give you all these gifts, your house is full of new things. People send you cards, well you wishes and everyone is super nice to you and happy for you. They tell you you're a beautiful bride. They want pictures with you. They give you all this attention. In time, plates start to break and mixers start to not function properly and all your new things start to look old and dingy. It’s just not reality. It’s the hype. That’s how they get you! - Me
• The Jamie Kennedy incident was the first and last time either of us said something remotely snarky behind the other person’s back. It’s not in my nature to talk like that, and Giuliana learned a big lesson. I can’t even think of a time I was tempted to make a joke at her expense and had to stop myself. I wouldn’t treat her in a way that I wouldn’t want to be treated myself – it sounds so elementary school, but it works really well in grown-up life, too. Once you go down that road, down a path of disrespect, it’s hard to know the different between what’s acceptable and what’s not because you become a little more permissive with your words each time you violate your commitment. I don’t want us to encounter the point of no return. - Bill in I Do, Now What Pg. 57
• I’m also lucky that we both believe criticism can belp a couple as they move through life together, in work and otherwise, and advise doesn’t need to feel like a slam when it’s presented in a clear way and for a person’s own good. – Giuliana in I Do, Now What Pg. 85

QUOTES ABOUT BEING STRONG

• What difference does it make? Your eggs aren't here anymore. You took your eggs and you left! - Chandler to Joey
• Flapping your mouth without knowing all the facts, I'm gonna see if I can put my foot in it - Carla on Scrubs
• Always keep the power in the conversation. You say Please too much - Dwight to Ryan
• You need to take your perky dial and take it down a few thousand notches
• A dirty little secret about Toxic Niceness: it keeps women from achieving great things. Another reason to get over it and get in touch with your Inner Bitch.
• When considering doing something foolish, ask yourself this: "If I told my best friend about this, would she want to slap me silly?" Your Inner Bitch knows you already know the answer.

QUOTES ABOUT GETTING OLDER

• As you get older, your taste gets more refined and sophisticated.
• As you get older, you start becoming less defensive and more settled in my own skin. You don’t second guess yourself so much.
• Work hard when young, and rest later - Bruce Jenner
• Using the F word - cheap, immature and uneducated
• She's a train wreck waiting to happen
• Its good to share it with someone who doesn't have any personal attachments to the incident or people involved -- a third party basically for advice so the have someone with sound judgment and can have a better perspective.
• I'm the rock, I need a shoulder too sometimes
• The ability to discern right from wrong
• Playing herself up, that will only last for so long
• Gender politics plays into everybody's life, whether you like it or not - Jon Hamm
• Shared same values, same ideologies, vision, like minded
• Trying to constantly One up me
• Stuck in her boring, subarban everyday life with her 2 parents - An Education
• Never talk about how much you earn and who you're seeing - its tacky - Sonam

QUOTES ABOUT FRIENDSHIP

• Friendship is sacred and facebook just cheapens it - Jimmy Kimmel
• Good friends are hard to come by
• A promise between friends means never having to give a reason - Phoebe
• It's easier to not start something that you know has no future than to have to end it awkwardly at some point - also a waste of time
• Its all the outcasts banding together - Sonia
• In an interview, the most important thing is to express enthusiasm in a believable way. No self deprecating humor. You're smart. you're funny, you're great to be around and you haven't decided if they're the right one. - Joan Holloway
• I'd rather be alone than be unhappy

QUOTES FROM THE HILLS

• You sit there and you make your sad puppy dog face, like its so hard, its so hard. No! You put yourself in this situation - Lauren over Jenn Bunney apology
• Handle it with grace instead of a mousey nervousness - Jenn Bunney
• Between you guys and I want nothing to do with it - Heidi
• Doug's not worth fighting with a friend over, but obviously he was worth it to Stephanie - Lauren Conrad
• He's a good looking guy, but looks can only take you so far - Whitney Port
• Do I scream lonely or something - Whitney
• You're that one guy who never gave in. You're that one guy who she couldn't get - Kristen to Justin Bobby
• He's making you work for him, that's for sure - The Hills to Kristen

QUOTES FROM HIMYM

• Our relationship is build on mutual trust - Marshall on HIMYM
• Pretend to take the offer off the table so I'll want it more - Ted Mosby
• Girls like to come across all classy and smart, y'know - Robin from HIMYM
• LILLY: Well, guess what, Barney? I don't base all my life decisions on how much money I'm going to make, unlike you and, sadly, my fiance. MARSHALL : internship, for the record. Yeah, because if I did sacrifice all for an easy buck, what would that make me? - HIMYM
• Until our dying days we’ll remember everything about that night as perfect. Maybe we both need that. So many things go wrong in life, but this is the one that never will – it will always, always be pure unadulterated awesome. If I walk in there, I’m robbing both of us of what could be - Ted HIMYM
• You spend most of your time in bed, your friends can't stand to listen to you, and you never seem to wear pants - HIMYM
• The only thing that can really heal a broken heart is time - HIMYM
• If it were me, I'd be like,[_speaking in a confident, assertive voice_] Ted Mosby, architect.[_points and pulls trigger on finger gun_]. Anything sounds impressive when it's said with the right attitude. - Barney HIMYM
• Dead in the eyes with an auro of self loathing and despair - Barney HIMYM
• We can't just be friends, were attracted to each other - Ted HIMYM
• It's just busy work to make you feel like you're contributing - Aldrin Justice HIMYM
• You know what these pictures are Lilly? They're a big fat lie! They're posed, they're touched up, they're what you want our life to be, not what it is. - Ted HIMYM
• They say your 40s is when you really get to know yourself - Barney HIMYM
• The people from the great state of Ohio, that’s who. When life gives us pain, we Buckeyes take that pain and we push it down, and if that pain starts to come up again, we push more pain down on top of it. Why confront something if we can avoid it, right? - Ted Mosby HIMYM
• Can't have typically girly conversations - Aishwarya Rai
• Thin without being toned - about Pam by Dwight
• You can't keep negative feelings bottled up, it'll make you sick - The Comebacks
• Don't believe everything you think - BUMPER STICKER

IN HINDI

• जो अन्दर से नर्म होते है, वो बाहर से सख्त ना हो तो दुनिया उसे कुचल देती है। - From "Dil Maange More"
• अगर करते हो तो कहने की ज़रुरत नहीं है। अगर ज़रुरत पड गयी तो मोहोब्बत नहीं है। - Shahrukh Khan on Koffee with Karan on why he doesn't say "I love you"
• जो सोचते है, वो करते नहीं; जो करते है, वो सोचते नहीं - Kareena Mujhse Dosti Karoge
• पुरानी यादों में रहोगे तो नयी यादें कैसे बनाओगे? - Kareena Mujhse Dosti Karoge
• I love you! तो में क्या करून? - Yuva between Vivek and Kareena
• कभी कभी लगता है की तुम किस्सी चीज़ की असलियत नहीं देख सक्ती, या देखना नहीं चाहती। - Jai from Jaane tu yah jaane na
• How about don't do anything to be "I'm sorry" for - Miranda SATC
• I can see your eyes! We might as well get married! - Frank Reynolds in It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia "Mac and Charlie Die Part II"

QUOTES FROM MY SO CALLED LIFE

• You think injustice like that doesn't happen? It happens everyday! Wake up! - Substitute Teacher Vic from My So Called Life
• You have to work up to that! - Angela Chase from My So Called Life
• Angela : What, you expect me to believe that?
  • Jordan : Well, I don't care what you believe! [starts to leave again]
  • Angela : Well, you find a five page letter in a museum and it starts, "Dear Jordan," and you expect me to believe you didn't read it?
  • Jordan : Uh, never mind. [starts to leave again] Look, I, I, I read parts of it, okay?
  • Angela : What? You must really think I'm stupid. [starts to leave]
  • Jordan : It just didn't hold my interest, okay? [starts to leave again]
  • Angela : Oh, really? Why, why is that? I'm curious, I'd really like to know what it was that made it so incredibly boring. Just tell me, was it, was it, is it, it too emotional, too personal, too many big words-
• You can't let their stupid actions control you. You have to lead your own life. - Rickie to Angela in My So Called Life (about Rayanne sleeping with Jordan)
• And i don't want you to think that being alone is a completely negative thing. A very wise man once wrote "In solitude a strong mind gains strength and learns to lean upon itself" - Carter from Spin City
• It’s not selfish, it’s self-preservation
• Amarjit Uncle (about dad): This guy is always in a hurry. 8-11 Dec 2011 Visit
• Amarjit Uncle (about dad and taking photographs): He thinks too much. 8-11 Dec 2011 Visit
• One thing that our society doesn’t see enough of is men require respect and nagging is a lack of respect. They need validation. At work, they get respect and they come home and get treated like crap. They’re gonna look for that respect somewhere else. - Kane Show Caller on topic "Nagging is more of a reason behind divorce than adultery."
• You need to up your standards. we are not going to keep going through this. Please John. We are not doing this again. - Danni to John after talking to the girl who stole his Zac Morris phone.
• Imagine a life without your partner - from Article How to Know If You Should Stay or Go
  • Anyone can lose track of his or her identity in a relationship. “You may have put aside your own goals and dreams, lost track of your own favorite activities and closest friends, sacrificed your taste in music or movies, or altered your political beliefs,” says Lundy. “Though all this accommodating can help hold a relationship together, the price is too high; you vanish in your partner’s current.”
  • When you’re trying to decide whether staying in your relationship will be truly beneficial or not, ask yourself if you have remained true to who you really are during the time you’ve been with your partner, and what your life would look like if you were no longer together. Remember that having love, approval, kindness and appreciation for yourself is at least as important as getting it from someone else; if these feelings are impossible to have while in your current relationship, it’s time to get back into having a loving, supportive connection with yourself.
  • And as much as we all enjoy being in love, Lundy cautions against jumping right into seeing someone new: “Give yourself time to get the benefits of being alone and to work through the grief and anger you’re carrying from the relationship that just ended. Build resources into your life that will support you and help to fill the gap left by your partner’s absence. Make friendships a priority, especially with people you can really trust. If you have children, you now have an opportunity to spend significant extra time with them, focusing on having fun and feeling close.”

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QUOTES FROM PRIDE AND PREJUDICE BY JANE AUSTEN

• Whatever bears affinity to cunning is despicable - Mr. Darcy
• I don't particularly like your way of getting husbands - Elizabeth Bennett to Lydia in Pride and Prejudice BBC Mini-Series
• Have been tainted by association. That our chances of making a good marriage have been materially damaged by Lydia's disgrace. - Jane Bennett to Lizzy in Pride and Prejudice BBC Mini-Series
• But your good opinion is rarely bestowed and therefore more worth the earning - Mr. Darcy to Elizabeth Bennett in Pride and Prejudice BBC Mini-Series
• I have made no such pretension. I have faults enough, but they are not, I hope, of understanding. My temper I dare not vouch for. It is, I believe, too little yielding— certainly too little for the convenience of the world. I cannot forget the follies and vices of other so soon as I ought, nor their offenses against myself. My feelings are not puffed about with every attempt to move them. My temper would perhaps be called resentful. My good opinion once lost is lost forever - Mr Darcy Chap 9 pg 59

QUOTES FROM NORTH & SOUTH PBS MINI SERIES

• If he has any knowledge of this, he keeps it to himself as any man of honor would - Mrs. Thornton from North & South
• I'm afraid it's not my nature to show affection, even when I feel it. - Mrs. Thornton from North & South
• You shouldn't! Because I do not like you, and never have - North & South
• Oh there are others? This happens to you everyday? Of course! You must have to disappoint so many men who offer you their heart. I do understand. I understand you completely. - Mr. Thornton
• Try as we might, happy as we were, we can’t go back. - Margaret Hale

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• Athena: Greeks held her up as an asexual being, being able to "overcome" her "womanly weaknesses"
• You seem to have a tremendous influence over this woman - Seinfeld
• To some people, love doesn't exist unless you acknowledge it in front of other people. - Alphonso in Valentine's Day
• I am paying with my life for things I did not commit. - Amanda Knox Oct 1 2011
• If I don't make mistakes, I won't learn from them. I won't know first hand why something is a bad idea. The key is to actually learn from it. Not to make the same mistakes over and over again knowing that it's a bad idea. I made a mistake the first time, fine...it happens. I keep making it...okay, now I'm just a total idiot and I have all the more reason to feel like a fool.
• “You’ve got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle.” - Steve Jobs
• I feel like for most people in the dating area, it's like a hit-or-miss game. I'm not into playing a hit-or-miss game. I'm fully aware of the kind of guy I find attractive and what I want. I feel like most people have absolutely no clue exactly what they're looking for in a significant other, and that makes them compromise once someone does come along. Not to mention in the long run, you're going to realize that they aren't right for you. This is particularly the case with serial monogamists who don't take the time after a relationship to reevaluate their life and figure themselves out. I don't need to date someone for a year to figure out that we're not right for each other. I can tell you that right now. It takes a certain level of self awareness and self assurance to know what you're looking for, and not being afraid to take your time and being patient and not settle for less than what you deserve by jumping into a relationship with the next person who has a pulse and pays you the slightest bit of attention.

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• Jealousy does nothing but prove the low self-esteem of the person who's feeling it. - Horoscope for May 28th 2007
• Getting more privacy is a healthy way to gain a deeper understanding of your life. - Horoscope for June 03, 2007
• Be compassionate with a braggart today. This boastfulness masks insecurities. - Horoscope for June 08, 2007
• You're not a flirt. But why are you batting your eyelashes as you say that? Let's face it: You charm the birds from the trees simply by walking by. Don't deny how cute you are. That would be a veritable crime! - Horoscope for June 14 2007
• Whatever scares you the most is also what holds the key to your freedom. If it sounds maddeningly paradoxical -- well, it is. But the stars are saying it's high time to examine your fears and gain your liberty. - Horoscope for July 20, 2007
• Attention is flattering; jealousy is not - Horoscope for July 22, 2007
• Simply put, you look smashing. Sensation, actually. It's that slow, smoldering charm of yours combined with an extra dose of astral intensity. People are caught in your orbit, but you decide who stays or gets cut loose. - Horoscope for July 22, 2007
• When something outrageous happens today, do yourself a big favor -- don't react. A customer or coworker is goofing around and trying to get a reaction from you or anyone else. Don't fall for it -- that only encourages them, but if you keep it professional they'll lose interest. Horoscope for September 23, 2007
• You're worthy of this, wholeheartedly.
• Speaking without thinking is that out of character for you, so don't do it today. - Horoscope for November 13th 2008
• You've recently been drawn toward a particular type of belief system and your interest in it has picked up considerably over the past few days. Well, there's no time like the present to investigate. You're wide open to new ideas, and the universe has even arranged to send you a teacher -- someone to help you along your path. And you know if you weren't ready, the teacher wouldn't be here. - Horoscope for September 19th 2013

___________________________________________________________________ If I quit - work out, time for gre = higher chance of getting in school, time for hrea, time for application for paralegal, time to look! Cookie cutter replica of every other guy

White capris - white shrug - pinstripe ruffle shirt Physically, genetically, socially, economically ---------------------- INCEPTION QUESTIONS Touching the totem Saito saying 'take a leap of faith' Arthur tying ppl up to make it easy to transport or kicks

When I start doing it again: read sociology book abt positions and the science, why men love bitches sex chapter,

RELIGION Believing in this is easier than believing in nothing - things you can't answer for yourself Authenticity of the bible Being a rational person: believing one person's vision, hearsay, noah's arc, ppl's age Religulous, devil's advocate What sex and relgion have to do with anything, why guilty Money and power Conversion from catholocism to christianity Religion Man made? Rules to follow ------------------------------

Can make many permutations Resplendant

WP: gmail, f2b

Lived a life apart from what was expected of him Violence - pertinant - immerse in the culture - economic - impoverished country - 60 years dealing with civil war

Teeth pushed out - boobs bigger - feet wider - lips pushed out - fat fingers - omentum _ Perfectly straightened teeth -

Reiterate everything that happens to her from her point of view to other people - My flaws: Time management - tolerance - not judging - not trying to 'help' other women just appreciate them as they are - there's reading people and then there's trying to fix them - thinking outside of my box of having my friends and not being nice/friendly with anyone else What am I doing to cause this behavior - I'm choosing the wrong man

Are you even into her, or are you just into her bc she facilitates the idea of getting married for you Too comfortable to leave

Greater good Brainwashed: made to believe one thing and one thing only Makes a world of a difference

PLACES + WEBSITES

• Off broadway shoes
• Tanger outlets
• Leesburg corner premium outlets
• South moon under
• blingblingaccesories.com
• Closetamerica.com
• Citybuzz.com
• Nonsociety.com - elements (home)
• Lennar.com
• Axpgold.com/tbs
• 4Miche.com
• perfectsitup.com

Its a front

Trust you - keep an eye on you all the time, possessive

Sleep exercise low stress healthy eating

Its not a competition w/ other chicks, he is w/ me for a reason Not gonna date someone who doesn't know what they want for themselves I'm convinced that everything with lace is better

Finra: f2 Kaplan: gmail | f2b

Pasta, olive oil, laughing cow cheese, crushed red peppers, parm, honey, nutmeg Recipe:penne, broccoli, bell peppers, onions, evoo Penne, Tomato, spinach, parma rosa, oregano, cr peppers

They poisoned my mind Burn any bridges, my future, I have loved working here and feel very honored to have worked here

Obligated to

1rembrandt.com Bigger ones do way more stuff Alchemilla

Honesty, respect, trust

one with the culture Opens my eyes to different things

Hold you by (those/my) standards Better suited for each other

Kaplan: f2b

Scared to question authority Pseudo intellectual bullshit

SCEP: student career experience program Org. For economic coorperation and development; asia+pacific economic coorperation forum' inter-american system Grace Kelly, Dainty little flower, gentine, voice like maple syrup on pancakes

• Encouraging, demoralizing
• Unbecoming

Pit us againt each other Take solace in someone else's arms/company

For people who live to drink, eat and travel You're essentially in charge of the kind of opinion/perception I have of you, so you can either make it or break it

• Humor as a way of keeping people at a distance
• Receed into the background and not be noticed

Do I know anything about myself that isn't associated with him? String him along - lead him on - ego boost square neck dress (like summer) | white cotton corset top for pink cotton skirt

• Bigger boobs - taller - strong jawline - straight hair like charlotte - no left baldspot - left tooth back - toned arms, thighs, abs - dark line from neck missing - no stretch marks - no obliques, Small, cute hands like Mila kunis, Natalie Portman, Kristen cavelleri - aruny - shilpi - scarlot j, ted's asian kathy,

You use your mom as an excuse to not take chances You're afraid to live your own life ________________ How am I different from most girls? Man card? Why do people think I'm guarded? What signs are there?

Volatile

2 black polos - covington So black v neck Target black v neck

Dignity Greenpeace

Where to draw the line Coward - plain jane Flaking Honest abt intentions. Doesn't pretend to be this super nice guy. Just lays it out there. This is how all guys think, I'm just not hiding it. Honesty

I want in

Toilet paper / biting into a whole apple / standing in front of a microwave / drinking out of mason jar / my bed being open and sitting with jeans or putting handbag 'I need you only bc you tell me what a wonderful/beautiful person I am' Shashana - $385 black ruffle dress Threw him over Its not a criticism, its an observation What so attractive abt a girl that doesn't need you for a guy? Can wear blazers, strong outfits when not dating but not in a relationship? Tartine Guys ragging on each other Sensible

The girl who always gets what she wants Who do I want to be? What is it about marriage that really scares me? What is it about getting older than really scares me? Suggestions for listo: can start list anywhere, can have columns,

Be selfish with your time...emotions

Detach from life - be in the moment Persecute - condemn - exploitation Stickler

Lenient - subservient - push over German - baking - cooking

Manifested her anger People Pleaser Really nice touch Reverse psychology Getting back to my old self

Dick around Non verbal implication Small window of opportunity

Cutesygirl Sexy - work - church shoes Impartial third party Standard, typical

Lilly allen - black eyed peas - regina spektor Young at heart Butros butros gali Caligula Desperate attempt for attention Sweet dreams - beyonce Kqed.org/fastfoodmyway Channel9store.com Jacques Pépin: more fast good my way Butternut squash velvet Pear and coffee I'm a good judge of character Strong jawline Made under duress Vulgar Liberating you from your world of lonliness and isolation Its the obligation Solid Flighty Beg to differ Impartial third party Over anxious

• Break wind
• Clunker
• The orient express
• Things abt America I hate: culture preoccupied/obsessed with tabloids, celebrities, dating/relationships, superficialities, ignorance of other cultures, everyone is so trendy, follows a pattern
• Have you ever truly experienced rejection?
• The Ethical slut

Garden state - 500 days - rear window - Gods must be crazy - handwriting

Usually in repressed cultures/societies,

Gloryhole Meatspin Happy trail Devil's threeway Missionary Booty call Fuck buddy Things have to take its course. Happen naturally in time. Don't force me or pressure me bc that just makes me wanna run the opposite direction That's what she said Fire crotch I wonder if the drapes match the carpet Shotgun Sausage fest Bros before hoes Double fisting Pearl necklace Teabagging Orgy I think you'd be much happier within yourself if you stopped caring about what other peoples opinions are Bumping uglies Rattail