OVERLAPPING LISTO: Blackberry Notes; Organize;

• Rutledge
• DeBrough
• Walsh
• Nelson
• Conway
• Thornton
• Hemingway
• Darcy

QUOTES

• I’ll tell you this, a guy loves a woman who is confident enough to wear flats. A lot of times women like to wear tall shoes because they feel more confident about it, but if a woman has flats on - that signals to a guy - You know what, she loves who she is. She doesn’t need to amp it up. - Wardrobe Items Guys Want You To Throw Out Article
• You can't allow another person to be the driving force of your happiness - deepika
• Jo under se narm hote hai, woh baahar se sakht naa ho to duniya use kuchal deti hai.
• What do you even care that I'm engaged? What do you even care anything about me? None of your business. My life is none of your business. Why do you wanna marry me? You wanna spend the rest of your life with me? You wanna like go on dates? You wanna be my boyfriend? No, so who gives a shit. Just be quiet...you're being such a baby right now. Why is it any of your business. You're so self centered, you feel like you have to be the center of everybodys world? Fuck that! Sorry, you're a sidekick. Like it's such a huge blow to your ego...like the ugly girl doesn't care about you. Get over yourself! I dont give a shit about you. - 2/27/2012 roses girl

CREATE LISTO

• WHY I PREFER ONLINE SHOPPING OVER IN STORE
  • The website usually has my size available. Usually not in store.
  • Can watch the item until the price drops - then use coupon rather than just pay a higher price in store because size was available
  • Can usually find a coupon code online and get it cheaper online than I would in store
  • Things are shipped brand new, in plastic - nobody has tried it on before me
  • Website usually has extra items that are not available in store.
  • Don't have the patience to look through things in store. Can easily find items online.
  • Isn't as time consuming as rummaging through items in store. If free shipping available - didn't have to lift a finger or schedule time out of your day.
  • You can see the garment on a model and see how it fits vs. on a hanger
  • Love receiving packages. Love the surprise factor of how the item looks in person.
• WHY BILL RANCIC IS THE PERFECT MAN
  • He uses idioms in his speech.
  • He is great at public speaking.
  • He always says the right things.
  • He always handles the situation with ease rather than getting frantic and getting stressed. He is very calm and cool, collected.
  • He's so charming. Jack of all trades. Gets along so well and easily with people of all different backgrounds and personalities.
  • He is not ignorant. He is aware and respectful of different cultures.
  • He is family oriented - would make a great father. The way he interacts with kids. He takes care of his mom - fixes things around the house.
  • He is so patient. He is never abrasive or harsh with sharing his opinions
  • He is a good man. "I'm not much of a gambler honey. What would you do if you won $300 million? I would change the world"
  • He is very supportive of his wife. He never belittles the work that she does.
  • He always looks out for her. Takes care of her, is so loving. Is always looking out for her best interest.
  • He never makes her feel intrusive when she calls. He always takes the time to talk to her and give her details and fill her in on things...without much probing. Doesn't want her to be left out.
  • He is never moody or complaining. He gets things done.
  • So mature. Never curses. Very well spoken.
  • He has great sense of decor. Attention to detail. Great taste.
  • Impressive business acumen - how to make $$. Selling homes
  • Perfect balance of serious and funny. "You snooze you loose girl" lol
  • He loves food more than alcohol.
  • Tactful, spiritual, believes in Karma,
• QUALITIES OF A TEXTBOOK ALPHA MALE
  • Does't allow people to see him weak - walks away before someone sees him cry
  • Stern and a hard ass on the outside, but good hearted and genuinly sweet on the inside.
  • Sensitive inside but closed off to strangers. It's all a show, a hard outer shell, a cold exterior because you don't want people's pity or for people to see you weak or vulnerable.
  • Doesn't need others approval - as long as he knows he's a good human being, he's not looking for appreciation or gratitude.
  • Not afraid of anything
  • Salman's charactor in Dabangg
• QUALITIES OF A MATURE PERSON - OPPOSITE OF BEING IMMATURE
  • doesn't gush
  • doesn't curse
  • isn't braggy, is self assured instead
  • isn't defesive when receiving criticism
  • calm vs being hyperactive or over eager
  • not petty
  • not dramatic
  • flexible
  • modest
  • humble, modest - rather than braggy
• QUALITIES OF A LEADER
  • inspiring
  • resilient
  • Risk taker
  • Willing to be accountable
  • doesn't dwell on failure. Rather focuses on moving forward
  • getings things done
  • is selfish
  • isn't afraid to rub people the wrong way if not getting what is being asked for. Doesn't care for their opinion or approval. Doesn't worry about being liked
  • Isn't ignored
  • multitasker
  • Isn't lazy
  • is a mover and shaker
  • isn't afraid to be commanding.
• GREATEST REGRETS
  • Letting friendship with Nicole S dissipate away
  • Not working harder in Mr. Sampselle's class
  • Being an idiot with NS
  • Doing things too soon with Matthew T.
• There are several reasons that a woman could be bad in bed.
  • She just lay there and have me do all the work
  • Don't return the favor orally
  • Bad at giving blowjobs-lick my balls or the tip of my penis or suck on me harder
  • Don't communicate enough in the bedroom
  • Not open to new things or positions in the bedroom
  • Want to do the same postions every single time
  • Always want the lights off
  • insecure with her body
  • Don't want to dirty talk ocassionally
  • Always want me to intiate everything
• beige sleeveless bubble top + navy Eyelet Short full umbrella skirt + nude open toed
• Ivory tank + Ivory V-neck boyfriend sweater + Cobalt Blue Pencil Skirt + Nude Skinny Belt + Nude Pumps + layered pearls look

Friendship and trust. I never realized that our friendship meant so little. You're letting some guy come between us. He has you brainwashed.

Colors - baby boy blue + yellow, fuschia + yellow, green + yellow

• Transfer Karen Supreme, Andrea Laliberte, Brent Heighton

BAD SEX QUOTES

• Ryan: To me, once you start caring for someone...all that means is that they can hurt you...and I don't want to be hurt.
• Katie: Out of an inability just to say no? That's the thing though, you really think that these people are so much more fragile than they are. That they can't take care of them selves. But I think you're projecting that where you have such an inability to take care of yourself you assume that noone else can either. And that you fall apart over certain minute things, and so omg they must fall apart as well. I think its about you trusting in your strength a little more and not kinda crumbling and falling apart and once you see yourself as stronger, you'll probably see everyone else as more tolerable and stronger
• Chris Donaghue: Sex is acceptable without love or commitment...it rarely leads to marriage/partner...have sex due to desire, pleasure, fun or bonding...dont have it looking for a relationship, this leads to shame, broken expectations, and equating sex with disappointment. It can lead to relationship, but dont make that the only goal
• Chris Donaghue: The healthier we get, the healthier our partners are going to be.

PEOPLE I ADMIRE

• Liz Lemon - her wit, goofyness, adorable childlike behaviour, being such a feminist, a homebody, not willing to settle, loves food, she isn't an oversexualized female side character, she's the head writer in charge of a dominantly male environment.
• Rachel Greene - her fun loving personality, sense of humor, laid back attitude, chill, low stress, drama free, sense of fashion, feminine magnetism - guys just loooove her,
• Emma Stone - her wit, she's so charming and witty and quick, clever, just so darn cool, her sense of humor, her deep voice, down to earth, well grounded, has a good head on her shoulders - not like the rest of the young Hollywood crowd
• Natalie Portman - smarty pants - went to Harvard, classy, very private and not seeking public attention. Low key, corky.
• Anthony Bourdain - open minded rather than judgmental and critical, witty, fearless, not afraid to tell it like it is, not afraid to rub people the wrong way, irreverent, I am who I am - take it or leave it
• Keanu Reeves' character in Speed - "Didn't have anywhere to be just then."

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• LiveJ
  • Work/Career boosts confidence. Being good at what you do Being successful. When in school being good in school makes you successful in your field and therefore confident. Finding dream job is so pivotal to self confidence. makes such a huuuuge difference. Being good at what you do gives you confidence, sense of self worth, feel important. feel important about getting up to go somewhere. Take your mind off other things.
  • At work, when compiling these papers for people. To see all the hundreds of pages of their work, their value that they have given to their life and impact they have made in their lifetime. Looking through all the people who write such great recommendation letters for them. Makes me wonder - what would be my impact during my lifetime? My value? Lenore’s comment about “give value to your life”
  • Value of a person - number of people you know? Got to thinking while mailing out christmas cards...how many people?
  • “I’m very busy and important”
  • “I’m so busy” “I don’t have time” “I’ll put you on my calendar”
  • Number of people you know, how busy you are, how difficult it is to get time on your schedule
  • Ron Burgundy: I don't know how to put this but I'm kind of a big deal.
  • Veronica Corningsone: Really.
  • Ron Burgundy: People know me.
  • Veronica Corningstone: Well, I'm very happy for you.
  • Ron Burgundy: I'm very important. I have many
• Now that I’m working again, I realize how much I’ve learned during my long term unemployment. It’s so fascinating how working has such an impact on your life, mental stability, your sense of self worth and value. It isn’t just about getting money and being able to buy stuff, (although, I do believe the amount of money you make does have a significant impact on your self confidence) working is our way of being someone worthy and valuable and making an impact on society. Your work/career is such a confidence booster. Being good at what you do and being successful has a significant impact on your attitude on life. The success you’ve gained through your work can determine whether you’ll be a leader figure, you’ll have self worth and confidence within yourself, you won’t be a fragile little creature but rather strong and thick skinned. Being good at what you do gives you confidence, sense of self worth, you feel important. You feel important that you have to get up to go somewhere in the morning. That you are a needed member of society.
• Watching Bad sex - really like it. The social worker and his observations. Movie “Shame” out in theaters at the same time. Sex addiction. Reminds me of true life. Tell me You Love Me "Good sex just hides everything that's bad about a relationship"
  • Reading about marriages. Lukas F. Becomes such a crazy mess. Falling apart from so much love to nothingness. Marriage - growing resentment and bitterness. Communication. Do people not discuss and figure out major hurdles prior to marriage? Also hearing about the book “5 languages of love” By Gary Chapman.
• LiveJ
  • My shopping addiction - Started when not working. Trying to fill a void with material goods. Returns - sense of purpose something to do. Multiple stimulations - didn't need it when in school. Once I moved back home bc trying 2 compensate 4 aspects that're lacking. Postbreakup-collecting for apt as hobby
• LiveJ
  • Fashion and compensating - Extra petite jean dressing so upscale and classy, adult bc she is short. I yearned to dress in button downs and pencil skirts when not working, when working, I have the option available to me so I don't.

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• When school is over, time to do:
  • refer to "reaching perfection" listo
  • read world history book
  • learn to speak french and german
  • Photography
  • Gym
  • Read books, jane austen
  • scrapbook finally
  • pursue hobbies - photography, save gas $$ for travel