okay I'm making this my list of an ideal guy sigh if only this person exists & knows me & wants to be with me SIIIIGH. listed in order of importance.

• constantly makes me feel loved and needed and cared for
• still wants to be with me despite my annoying-ness, irritability, neuroticism, depressive tendencies
• puts up with my fangirlness
• gets along with my family and friends (at least most of them)
• does not judge any person he does not know
• sort of arrogant and opinionated, sarcastic
• makes things happen, not waits for things i.e. "thy will be done" or any of that bs
• drinks occasionally or moderately
• does not smoke
• has a sense of adventure
• loves going on nature trips
• loves watching the sunset
• loves watching the stars
• loves listening to music
• loves reading books
• open-minded
• not misogynistic
• believes in and stands up for equal gender rights
• believes in free will and choice
• does not follow organized religion (OR if he is a member of a religious group then he must not pressure me or even hint at me that I ~should~ believe in his god or anything like that)
• willingly performs household chores like cooking, doing the laundry, and washing the dishes
• likes celebrating New Year's, Easter, and Christmas
• likes technology
• loves traveling
• not an otaku
• has a stable job