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i’m a backseat driver in the backseat, bumming around, around
I am a poster for a concert that's over> ayin himself will never be suited for any type of romantic commitment. ayin did not love carmen as an equal. he loved her as a flawless saviour, his own ideal. ayin cannot provide her any mutual emotional support she so desperately needed. ayin put carmen on such a mmmassive pedestal that he was completely ill-equipped to handle her breaking point. he lacked the spine to even say no to her.
I wouldn't say that I hate this pair because they're not good for each other, I hate it because nobody portrays it well. what's so pretty about a cult leader and her advocate? make them unhealthy and gross, it's not that hard.
* dandys world, forsaken, the coffin of andy & leyley, your boyfriend, unstable smp, and tfc community
> I believe that people can enjoy toxic dynamics because of their toxicity. its the type of pair that revolves around tension, tragedy, and lots of conflict. and, it makes for great storytelling/writing. enjoying dark/messy fiction can serve as a harmless psychological outlet to process heavy emotions behind a screen.
its fine to like bad things in fiction because its bad. shipping doesn't automatically mean that you're saying its a good relationship, it's more of expressing your interest in their dynamic and your /want/ to see them get explored more by several other community members.
* people who don't label their photosensitive videos with flash warnings (is tihs not common sense)
* people who actively shit on microlabels
> micro labels are commonly used to refer to someone's exact personal experience to one's orientation. demiromantic is an example of a micro label. you are not allowed to dislike someone's preferred identity/romantic/sexual preference. if someone finds it difficult to identify themselves with the given broad term, then let them express themselves in ways they would prefer😭 you have no room to judge someone over their own identity, that type of behaviour is weak. you do not support the lgbtq if you cannot find yourself to support micro labels. you have other stuff to dog on like radqueers