rated on a 1-5 star system -- one star means " n o " whereas a five star is an enthusiastic "yes". a three star is indifference; do it if you want.

asking others to front ⭐⭐ (depends on context/relational status)

flirting with us ⭐⭐⭐ (only if you're bodily +18 and we know you)

person-first language or collective-first language both works. we see ourselves as distinct individuals but since our plurality functions on a midcontinuum spectrum you may also see us as different "versions". just acknowledge we're not literally The Same Person(TM) and you'll be fine.