i have been sexually assaulted by a family member. if i vent about that, i'll be tagging it as "sexual abuse" and "incest" when appropriate, but if the chance of seeing those discussions would upset you, please keep yourself safe.
i have incest ships and discuss them. fictional incest allows 100% guarantee of consent and an equal power level between those involved, so i don't feel guilty there. my opinion on incest shipping was the same before and after i became a victim of it. (this is not a statement of superiority to anyone else who has experienced this, but i am extremely uncomfortable with my shipping being attributed to "coping".) please don't follow me if this still makes you uncomfortable and you're going to judge me or complain about it around me frequently.