- first and foremost, will share my spiritual views, for the most part 
- will have to love Dogs.  Big dogs. 
- will have to be patient 
- also, opinionated and possibly well read 
- hopefully he'll be intelligent 
- and able to carry on both highly intellectual and completely ridiculous conversations- often simultaneously 
- will have to like good food (ie- my cooking) 
- will enjoy traveling 
- and have a heart to help others 
- will enjoy being out doors, especially kayaking 
- be taller than me (I enjoy wearing heels, capisce?) 
- will love children, and want many, I hope. 
- hopefully he'll be artistic, in some way or another 
- and kind 
- and funny 
- also, he'll like November, and cold weather. 
- he won't be afraid to be himself, whatever that means 
- unabashed 
- introspective, and emotionally intelligent 
- did I mention patient?  That's an important one. 
- He'll be good with languages- or language or words 
- He'll be an easy person to be quiet with.  And he'll value silence. 
- Ambition is key- but not out of greed or self-promotion 
- He can't be a teetotaler, but he also can't become easily addicted 
- He'll have to be flawed.  And if he meets all of these, I'll be disappointed. The only necessary thing is the first that I mentioned, the rest is really inconsequential... (Except for the patience, maybe.  That one's important.) 
         oct 3 2011 ∞
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