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"I can believe things that are true and I can believe things that aren't true and I can believe things where nobody knows if they're true or not."

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this is in certain instances, of course.

  • the person didnt respect you enough to tell you the truth, or
  • the person didnt know you well enough to realize that a lie to avoid an argument would create a worse argument and greater hurt.
  • the person cares more about being 'right' to the point of hurting you to save his/herself the admittance.
  • you can't be certain if the person is lying the next time something happens.
  • trust takes a long time to rebuild.
  • if someone lies once about something, and you catch them, they've probably lied before and not been caught. and chances are, they'll try to do it again.
  • relationships should be built on trust..

“I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you” F.N.

jul 7 2009 ∞
aug 15 2012 +