what does the 'basic dni criteria' mean on my byf?:

  • ableist (including people who are against self diagnosis)
  • antisemitic, islamophobic
  • believe fiction doesn't affect reality and/or you're pro-ship/anti-anti
  • believe in transandrophobia
  • endogenic system or supporters
  • lesbophobic, homophobic, biphobic, transphobic
  • map or 'minor attracted person'. so a pedophile
  • nazi, alt-right
  • racist, anti-black , against blm, all/blue lives matter
  • use slurs you can't reclaim or use slurs you can reclaim against others who haven’t consented to it
dec 5 2022 ∞
jan 9 2023 +

dni if you:

  • police pronouns
    • think pronouns = gender
    • are against he/him lesbians or she/her gay men
    • refuse to use it/its or any other neopronouns
  • anti-xenogengers
  • are a trans-exclusionary radical feminist or any other branch of feminism that doesn’t actively support trans women
  • make or share any jokes/memes where the punchline is essentially just a ‘man in a dress’ joke
  • are weird about/to trans women in general
dec 6 2022 ∞
jan 9 2023 +

tagging/blacklist:

  • i tag most common triggers but may forget less common ones
  • you can ask me to tag anything and i will do my best
  • i’ll likely post untagged about alcohol and weed, but would tag anything that implies abuse of those substances
  • i reblog nsfw jokes and occasionally nudity/suggestive content. blacklist ‘#not sfw’ to avoid seeing it
  • if i see any untagged mentions of inc-st i will likely immediately block
    • i also block anyone who jokes about inc-st in any way

other:

  • i tend to be pretty sporadic in online presence and disappear sometimes
  • i’m likely to act differently and/or co...
jan 9 2023 ∞
jan 9 2023 +