(tw: mentions of nsfw, incest, pedophilia, csa/sa.)

• do not interact if you believe fiction doesn't affect reality, this includes:
• joking about or justifying incest in any form, including families who aren't related by blood (step-siblings, adopted family, etc)
• joking about or justifying pedophilia in any form
• justifying or participating in the sexualization of minors (age ups of minor characters without timeskips for sexual purposes) i’m looking at you sick tumblr fucks
• justifying abusive or unhealthy relationships in the form of ships e.g bakudeku

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• you think that just because you are a csa survivor you are allowed to sexualize/consume porn content of minors in media as a 'coping mechanism'.

• you are a transmedicalist, terf, radfem or in general agree with any feminist takes that claim trans women aren't women or feminism that includes trans men.
• the feminism you are part of has a transphobic * community or ideals, and you don't actively call it out/do anything against it, this applies to you too, people who are 'neutral' about transmisogyny and transphobia are transphobic as well
• you believe you must have gender dysphoria to be trans. look up gender incongruence read something
• misgender trans people on purpose because they're bad people. you are not the ally you think you are. eg: nikita dragun.
• if you reclaim the t slur or derogatory terms that are used against trans women and men as someone who isn't one.
• trans people who ignore transmisogyny or make it about themselves. eg. transmasc p...

• huge carrd on activism
• really educative carrd on real world iss...
• carrd on the environment
• help muslims 1 & 2
• stop asian hate 1 & 2 & 3
• understand tone tags hehe
• educate yourself on slurs
• understand pronouns
• lgbtq education #1
• non binary education
• unlabelled identfication
• yagami yato is yucky!!

• you use aave (african-american vernacular english) as a non-black person . co-opt black terms. anti-() , ()fishing, non() & etc. see here
• you use the word ‘blackwashing’ unironically or participate in whitevember, in terms of anime and fictional characters black people are often misrepresented and based off racial stereotypes, it’s lowkey just for representation cope see here
• you use 'nb' to refer to nonbinary people .nb has been used by black people for years, please use nby/nbry (enby can be seen as infantizing to some nonbinary people so ask before using it.)
• you use 'poly' to refer to (poly)amorous/romantic/sexual . poly is for polynesian people, please use polya/polyam
• you use terms like folx, womxn, my'theyd, gentlethem or 'go they/them go' or anything along the lines of that. you are not the ally you think you are, you're just v v annoying...

• you are an exclusionist (against xenogenders or neopronouns, believe pronouns = gender. eg: believe lesbians can't use he/him & they/them. or that gay people can’t use she/her or they/them

education on he/him & they/them lesbians

here & here

• you support mspec 'lesbians'/male 'lesbians' + mspec gays. basically just people who say they're lesbian boy, bi lesbian, etc.
• don't support people who go by unlabeled or think pansexuality, omni, etc are biphobic/transphobic.
• use the toothpaste flag(s)/identify as '(insert umbrella term for lgbtq men that begins with a)'. toothpaste flags creators are bad, they copied the lesbian flag, they're anti-black, etc & (insert it again) is inspired by a pedo no matter how muc...

(tw: mentions of eating disorders)

• you are against self-diagnosing with extensive research.

like huh?? a diagnosis doesn’t give you a disorder or mental illness tf

• you don't include disabled people in your activism.
• you demonize cluster b disorders e.g say things like 'narcissistic abuse', use psychopath/sociopath in derogatory ways or etc.
• __you infantilize or romanticize any illnesses or disorders __ it’s omgg mental health awareness until a mentally ill person acts mentally ill. a depressed person not showering? brushing their teeth? changing their clothes? eww how nasty/s
• you think that because you can't see the disability it "isn't that bad." and you think mental & invisible disabilities are just as valid.
• you refuse to use tone tags and/or mock them & people who need them.

• you are racist, antisemitic, islamophobic, xenophobic, zionist/pro-israel see here & here, misogynistic, homophobic, fatphobic, ableist or sanist. lesbiphobic, biphobic, transphobic. a minor attracted person (pedophile). you believe in/are a bi/pan lesbain see here
• you are a trump supporter, or a dsmp fan. if you support racists or any of those above just educate yourself. also dni if you’re a pro lifer and agree with abortion bans. dni if you believe slavery (against african-americans & indians) should be justified
• you think skinny people can’t be bodyshamed or you call them degrading shit like bone thugs/skeletons. or you call people flat. bodyshaming is bodyshaming
• you’re a right winger or neutral/centralist, support the police, the military, or ice in any way.
• you support all lives matter or blue live... in counter to the black lives matter mov...