i like:

• his name (it's unusual and also a place that's dear to me)
• his confidence
• his smile
• his perfect tan and gorgeous skin
• his dark hair and dreamy cary grant haircut
• he gave me a key to his place right away
• that i hang out with him 5-6 days a week and don't get sick of him
• he likes (most) of my friends
• he grew a beard for me
• he's super handsome
• he's got cut lines and they are supa sexy
• he's kinda hairy, not grossly, but in a manly way
• that he can do basically everything - fix shit, make things, build things, sail, cook, sew, snowboard, skateboard, surf, old skool photography, gardening, welding, art, whatever
• lets talk about the cooking again - he makes amazing meals almost daily and loves to do it and makes almost everything from scratch
• he's considerate in bed and really tries to do whatever it takes for me
• he talks during sex and its hot
• he tells me how gorgeous and sexy i am and how much i turn him on
• he puts his hand on my leg when we drive or rubs my back when we're sitting somewhere..little nice touches
• he's ridiculously charming
• he looks soo freaking good in his jeans
• he wears redic sunglasses and looks awesome
• he's got an awesome body - not too muscly, but not skinny, just...yum.
• he bikes like crazy and knows a lot about bikes
• he grows his own veggies and works in the garden
• he'll offer to help strangers with things
• he's talkative with strangers in a nice way, not a creepy way
• he's got more gay friends than i do (or so he says, but i doubt it)
• he fucking loves to dance (yay!)
• and he's a great singer who loves to karaoke (DOUBLE YAY)
• i can fart in front of him
• and talk about pooping
• "FATTY WANTS COOKIES"
• the way he says 'GIMME KISSES' and 'NO MORE KISSES.'
• he's rugged and manly and salt of the earth, he has dirt under his fingernails and doesn't wear cologne or deodorant and doesn't shave all his pubic hair off (whats up with that, guys?)
• his natural smell
• how hard he works to get where he wants to be in life
• he's always up for an adventure
• he listens to NPR and good music
• "getting eaten by a bear' kisses & 'dinosaur' kisses
• he crashed my car, but then spent almost all his money fixing it
• he buys me flowers for no reason
• he buys me dresses for no reason (except that he thinks i'll look hot in them and he can show me off)
• i haven't worn makeup since i started dating him - he likes me better au naturale
• he misses suki sometimes
• "sex farts"
• he's shorter than me and he doesn't give a fuck
• he's my sexy tennis instructor
• he has really nice handwriting
• he loves me and he's not afraid to say it
• he told me he's the best girlfriend he's ever had (multiple times)

things i am undecided about:

• its almost impossible to tell when he's drunk
• his friends are some crazy bastards who convince him to do stupid things sometimes

things i dislike:

• he likes doing party drugs
• he's maybe too adventurous aka he does somewhat dangerous shit
• he's allergic to cats (he can't help it but it sucks and i feel bad when he comes to visit and cant breathe)
• he doesn't have a car (not the worst, but that means i have to go to him a lot) although now that its warmer he bikes to me.
• he wants a motorcycle (dangerous!)
• his spelling is not so great
• he's more into sports than i would like
• he tickles me! grrr. :)
• spends money v. freely. doesnt seem to care about his SHITLOAD of student loans
• he likes his food soooo frickin spicy!
• lazy about cutting fingernails/toenails
• he has no money right now - not really his fault - he's in a bad situation. but it kinda sucks paying for him to do stuff or eat with me all the time
• he's got a high sex-drive (too much for me)
• he likes sex w/o condoms, i do NOT. luckily, i win.
• he's overly-critical about other people's art -it embarrasses me. (plus we have very different tastes in art i think).
• he doesn't have health insurance (not his fault)
• likes to spend EVERY MINUTE with me - very little 'me' time.
• bad luck seems to follow him
• can be stand-offish in social situations, not that friendly to new people if he's decided he doesn't care to meet them
• won't shut up about the america's cup - geeky but cute
• gets super into crazy ideas but lacks the motivation to follow through or gets distracted by another idea.
• never saves money, never has money, i constantly have to pay for stuff. (he pays me back though).
• smokes again - fucking gross
• smokes too much pot
• doesn't brush his teeth that much although never has cavities...