do not follow if:

• (if you read all of this and you aren't gonna follow back, please just softblock me!)
• basic dnfi criteria (homiphobic, transphobic, racist, etc. etc.)
• you're active in the ace discourse/make fun of aces/etc.
• you’re against otherkin, fictionkin, and/or fictives
• you don't like people kinning outside of their privilege
• you don’t support self-diagnosis (with exstensive research)
• you're sapiosexual
• you believe that “everyone is a little ocd”, “everyone has bpd to an extent when you think about it”, etc.
• you don’t believe in add/adhd or you don’t believe that they cause disorder in the lives of people who suffer from them
• you call people who have mood swings bipolar, you call self-centered people sociopaths/narcissists, you use autistic as an insult, etc.
• you ship pedophilic ships and aren't a csa survivor
• you ship incestual ships and aren't an incest survivor
• you're part of the tcc (it's 100% fine if you're just interested in true crime cuz its one of my main interests too but if you condone/act like the criminals are your precious babies who never did anything wrong/romanticize them/etc. then get away from me lmao)

please don't follow if you post/publicly ship:

• arisasa/kishou arima x haise sasaki
• blmatsu/any of the matsu brothers shipped with each other, especially karamatsu x todomatsu
• n x ghetsis
• jonadio/jonathan joestar x dio brando
• josuhan/josuke higashikata x rohan kishibe
• rorei/rohan kishibe x reimi sugimoto
• giomis/giorno giovanna x guido mista
• ayatouka/ ayato kirishima x touka kirishima
• yu narukami (/souji seta) x ryotaro dojima, nanako dojima, and/or tohru adachi
• any incestual/pedophilic ship
• (this only applies if they’re romantic; posts with these characters together with the intentions being for it to be seen as purely platonic/familial are completely fine)
• if you ship any of these to cope with trauma and you do it privately & you acknowledge how gross they are then you can still follow me

bad people, don't follow if you associate with:

• fg/joseph/jojo - @mrbrightside109 on tumblr & @itschatnoirbitch on vent
• ruby - @valli-try-try on tumblr
• suzi - @josephisbestjojo on vent

if you fit any of my dnfi criteria and i follow u first please just softblock me.

ask to follow if:

• you kin with joyce byers from stranger things and/or eleven from stranger things and/or veronica sawyer from heathers the musical (someone not so good from my past claimed to be them so i’m wary of people who kin/id as them)