I think that sometimes it's important to identify where stress is coming from before trying to fix.

• My mother
• The fact that sometimes I act like her
• Grant and I's lack of communication about the simplest things like who's car we are taking or what time we are ACTUALLY leaving the house
• The fact that I feel the urge to clean up other people's messes
• My tendency to always want to be the responsible one
• My inability to say "No" to people when I know that I don't want to do something
• My hatred for bailing on plans that I have already committed to