DO:

• ask who's fronting! (though we usually have it in our status!)
• talk about sources! (most of our sources are special interests :3)
• ask system related questions! (i promise u wont be rude!!!)
• ask for our simplyplural! (though we forget to update it a lot LOL)

DON'T:

• ask invasive questions (i.e. "how long have you known you're a system?", "how many alters do you have?") these can be seen as attempting to fakeclaim, but it's also somewhat rude to ask regardless..!
• try to roleplay with us. yes, we are fictive heavy, but we are not fictional! don't treat us like we're directly our source!
• adding to this ^ do not put us at an expectation to act exactly like our source material! again, we are not directly our source. we've had issues before with people saying stuff like "he would not say that"...
• ask for specific people to front/try to trigger specific alters. this is hella disrespectful !! idc how close you are to a headmate, don't try to force them into front!
• exclusively refer to us by catch-alls, if possible. we don't fully mind it, but it's better to acknowledge the person fronting specifically! we usually have who that is in our discord status as "f:
  
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• try to ship us with headmates....... trust me, it's happened before.

OTHER THINGS TO KEEP IN MIND !:

• none of us gaf about "doubles" lol. whether you're kinning, irl, or are a fictive, it's okay if u share a source. just don't be weird abt it.
• we aren't "open" about being a system everywhere, but if ur on discord it shouldn't be an issue ^_^ we only ask that you refrain from bringing it up on instagram (if on our main) and tiktok!