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  • make sure you know, without a shadow of a doubt, what you want in the man you will spend the rest of your life with.
    • not just things like: "he's fun to hang out with" or "he has a great taste in music", but stuff like "he is fully committed to God and knows he wants to be with me" and "he wants to raise his children in africa with me."
  • pray for specifics - God will reveal them in the man He has for you in time.
  • be certain you have the same values. not just that he's a christian, but that he has the same specific moral values as you.
  • make sure mom likes him and that he's nice to jennifer and respectful to dad.
  • make sure you like him enough to let him meet papaw.
  • pray a lot lot lot.
  • he has to challenge me in my faith so i can see another side of God through him and really grow.
mar 2 2010 ∞
mar 4 2010 +