it's okay if you can't do these!!

• please softblock when unfollowing! (don't feel like you have to keep following out of obligation; if you wanna unfollow me, you can!)
• if you could let me know if/when i've done something wrong or upset you so i can fix my behavior, i would really appreciate it! (your comfort is above anything else, so if something bothers you, please don't hesitate to tell me)