• weed or any other smoking/drugs
• one-dimensional, faceless, archetypical
• refusing to be open-minded
• being codependent on friends
• unable to take criticism
• talking about only yourself in conversation
• making shit up for attention ... and it's obvious
• unwilling to accept having any flaws / negligent of self-growth

disclaimer: i will never judge you directly if you do these things. you do you boo, it does not make you a terrible person if you fall under any of these things. it just creates some automatic wariness/boundaries for me.