- how to fall in love without losing herself
- how to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without ruining the friendship
- when to try harder and when to walk away
- how to have a good time at a party she'd never choose to attend
- how to ask for what she wants in a way that makes it most likely she'll get it
- that she can't change the length of her calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents
- that her childhood may not have been perfect but its over
- what she would and wouldn't do for love or more
- how to live alone, either she like it or not
- whom she can trust, whom she can't, and why she shouldn't take it personally
- where to go, be it to her best friend's kitchen table or a charming Inn in the woods when her soul needs soothing
- what she can and can't accomplish in a day, a month, and a year
- she is truly loved and thought of by her parents
aug 12 2010 ∞
aug 6 2013 +