• cook
• clean
  • dishes
  • laundry
  • pick up
  • sweep
  • mop
  • trash
  • the basic household chores and whatnot
• help her shower
• help her in and out of bed
• help her take her pills on time
• take her to appointments
• cater to her needs and wants
• make sure she eats
• help her and her son handle the emotional stress
• help organize and maintain bills
  • make sure they get paid
• sit with her while she eats/watches tv/just keep her company
• clean her when she has a bowel movement
• empty her urine bag when its full
• turn her when she needs to move
• comfort her when she is crying from pain
• rub her back when it hurts
• dress her
• change her
• change her depends (diaper)
• help get things organized before she passes
• comfort her and her son about her prognosis and when things are more stressful than normal
• keep nurses updated when she has new meds or needs more/new help
• i basically do everything. everything her son, the stupid cna or nurses dont do. and everything she cant do or needs help with.

she is paralyzed from the waist down, and her paralysis is starting to take over her upper body as well now