Pros:

• I'll feel better not being used
• My vagina won't get all stretched out
• He's not interested in a real relationship (with ME)
• I know he doesn't care about me...if he did, he would have said so; he would SHOW me that he cared in his actions and with his words
• I can work on myself w/o the stress of having sex with him and being worried about what he thinks of my horrible body
• I have said loving/caring things and made comments - I believe he KNOWS I have feelings for him and he's still fucking me (sporadically) which makes him a bit of a fucking asshole
• He's never attempted to give me oral
• I like him a little less ever since he initially ended things last February in a fucking text at 6:30 in the goddam morning (the Wednesday after my pretend Valentine's Day rampage with Mark)
• Get the jump on him FIRST before he ends it (again)
• Stop feeling like shit that NO ONE in his life knows I exist

Cons:

• I'll miss him terribly for a long time
• I'll cry and be a sad sack for a long time
• Maybe I'm being too hasty and he's waiting for me to get my shit together around the house
• I DO think he's a good guy (he just doesn't like ME)
• He doesn't like me
• I will miss his exceptional penis

Nvm. It's over. It ended the second I made the mistake of texting him my true feelings on 1/4/24. He never responded and I have still NEVER heard a peep out of him and haven't seen him since October of 2023. I meant absolutely NOTHING to him.