taken from Marcandangel.com

  • Don’t try to read other people’s minds. Don’t make other people try to read yours. Communicate.
  • Be polite, but don’t try to be friends with everyone around you. Instead, spend time nurturing your relationships with the people who matter most to you.
  • Your health is your life, keep up with it. Get an annual physical check-up.
  • Live below your means. Don’t buy stuff you don’t need. *Always sleep on big purchases. Create a budget and savings plan and stick to both of them.
  • Get enough sleep every night. An exhausted mind is rarely productive.
  • Get up 30 minutes earlier so you don’t have to rush around like a mad man. That 30 minutes will help you avoid speeding tickets, tardiness, and other unnecessary headaches.
  • Get off your high horse, talk it out, shake hands or hug, and move on.
  • Don’t waste your time on jealously. The only person you’re competing against is yourself.
  • Surround yourself with people who fill your gaps. Let them do the stuff they’re better at so you can do the stuff you’re better at.
  • Organize your living space and working space. Read David Allen’s book Getting Things Done for some practical organizational guidance.
  • Get rid of stuff you don’t use.
  • Ask someone if you aren’t sure.
  • Spend a little time now learning a time-saving trick or shortcut that you can use over and over again in the future.
  • Don’t try to please everyone. Just do what you know is right.
  • Don’t drink alcohol or consume recreational drugs when you’re mad or sad. Take a jog instead.
  • Be sure to pay your bills on time.
  • Fill up your gas tank on the way home, not in the morning when you’re in a hurry.
  • Use technology to automate tasks.
  • Handle important two-minute tasks immediately.
  • Relocate closer to your place of employment.
  • Don’t steal.
  • Always be honest with yourself and others.
  • Say “I love you” to your loved ones as often as possible.
  • Single-task. Do one thing at a time and give it all you got.
  • Finish one project before you start another.
  • Be yourself.
  • When traveling, pack light. Don’t bring it unless you absolutely must.
  • Clean up after yourself. Don’t put it off until later.
  • Learn to cook, and cook.
  • Make a weekly (healthy) menu, and shop for only the items you need.
  • Consider buying and cooking food in bulk. If you make a large portion of something on Sunday, you can eat leftovers several times during the week without spending more time cooking.
  • Stay out of other people’s drama. And don’t needlessly create your own.
  • Buy things with cash.
  • Maintain your car, home, and other personal belongings you rely on.
  • Smile often, even to complete strangers.
  • If you hate doing it, stop it.
  • Treat everyone with the same level of respect you would give to your grandfather and the same level of patience you would have with your baby brother.
  • Apologize when you should.
  • Write things down.
  • Be curious. Don’t be scared to learn something new.
  • Explore new ideas and opportunities often.
  • Don’t be shy. Network with people. Meet new people.
  • Don’t worry too much about what other people think about you.
  • Spend time with nice people who are smart, driven, and likeminded.
  • Don’t text and drive. Don’t drink and drive.
  • Drink water when you’re thirsty.
  • Don’t eat when you’re bored. Eat when you’re hungry.
  • Exercise every day. Simply take a long, relaxing walk or commit 30 minutes to an at-home exercise program like the P90X workout.
  • Let go of things you can’t change. Concentrate on things you can.
  • Find hard work you actually enjoy doing.
  • Realize that the harder you work, the luckier you will become.
  • Follow your heart. Don’t waste your life fulfilling someone else’s dreams and desires.
  • Set priorities for yourself and act accordingly.
  • Take it slow and add up all your small victories.

However good or bad a situation is now, it will change. Accept this simple fact.

  • Excel at what you do. Otherwise you’ll just frustrate yourself.
  • Mature, but don’t grow up too fast.
  • Realize that you’re never quite as right as you think you are.
  • Build something or do something that makes you proud.
  • Make mistakes, learn from them, laugh about them, and move along.
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