dni if you discriminate people for who they are, which includes:

• making fun of people's identity (why would you do that even-)
• against any sort of non-binary identity
• against xenogender or neopronouns
• against lesbians who use any other pronouns than she/her
• terf of any kind (if you think feminism isn't for trans women, or that it fights for trans men too)
• truscum/transmed (you think you need dysphoria and/or medical transition to be 'trans enough')
• being okay with friends/people you know being transphobic and not doing anything about the harm they're causing
• against otherkin identities or any identity that isn't human