• Likes to drive, so i don't have to
• chill
• Enneagram 1, 2, 3, 7 (so we can balance each other)/more extroverted
• okay with silence
• Can fill my love tank with words, quality time and physical touch. (okay with my insecurities and affirms me.)
• Foodie (not a picky eater)
• Family Oriented (loved by my family and vice versa)
• Employed and/or Studying
• Financially responsible
• Only social drinker, no to hard drugs (weed-okay)
• Understands boundaries
• Handy man (like my dad)
• Smart, Kind, hardworking, funny
• Patient (<<< a must)
• leadership qualities
• Need to be comfortable being around him and friends

Now the qualities i learn I need to must have in a partner after experiencing a relationship (even if its just the talking stage)

• Reciprocation- I need someone who I know who can reciprocate the same feelings I have and attraction and put in the work as me. or maybe I just need more communication or maybe i’m just a push over. who like to please and give, give give. which is something I need to work on.
• Communication- to be with him, I have to communicate. To be with him, I have to let him know what I want. To be with him, I can’t make him my priority if I’m just an option for him. To be with him, I want him to be mine only.

I’m not an extremely jealous person or want to be difficult in a relationship, but I do know what I want and need in order to be happy/secure and these are just a few i noticed.

• Get to know them first before actually going out on a date.
• They have to communicate what they want/to be direct/honest with me
• Playful, banter, yet polite, sweet, kind to everyone
• Extroverted but doesn’t mind the quiet.
• Finds me attractive even physically with scars, asthma, skin problems, overweight
• Doesn’t mind taking it slow/ guiding me intimately/ with consent
• Able to reassure and affirm me every once in a while so I know they still like me or find me attractive
• doesn’t mind my shyness
• doesn’t mind initiating physical touch d/t lack of experience on my part
• text if busy, don’t ghost
• let’s me know once they are not interested in me anymore.
• reciprocate/ put in as much effort/ take turns paying on dates or halfies
• I must be comfortable around them