• not going for a drink with workmates in June 1998

that led to

• deciding to finish my history BA from home

that led to

• doing a BA and MA in cinema

that led to

• joining a friend's yahoogroup about movies

that led to

• leaving my first flat to go live with R and almost get married

that led to

• starting writing for various magazines
• meeting G

that led to

• moving to Bristol

that led to

• leaving G

that led to

• moving to London

that led to

• finding a job and settling down
• meeting Justin
• forgetting the condom

Look where it got me.