if you wanna see me sob like a baby . . . music:

• i grieve by peter gabriel
• breathe me by sia
• along december by counting crows
• i shall believe by sheryl crow
• what hurts the most by rascal flatts
• full of grace by sarah mclachlan
• if you're reading this by tim mcgraw
• come home soon by shedaisy
• prolly wouldn't be this way by leanna rimes
• storms in africa & ebudae by enya
• in a mist by the drovers
• just about anyone singing on the loose

movies/tv:

• buffy episode "the body" (the one where joyce dies)
• the end of "meet joe black"
• "what dreams may come"
• the episode of grey's where denny dies and izzy is crying in the ballgown
• the last scene of backdraft as you watch the engine drive thru the streets of chicago