in no particular order

• learn how to drive
• become an umpire
• learn how to use tournament software + host a tournament
• significantly improve a little
  
  kid's game
• paganini 24 caprices
• learn how to cook-- do it consistently
• join a pool tournament
• learn how to maze in wc3-- beat kai in wmw
• read chinese [newspapers and blogs]
• join a fundraiser event
• draw a full-scale picture
• butterfly lovers concerto

regarding marriage and adult life

• a roof over my head
• something to keep me occupied [read: stable job]
• to not be worried about $$.

compare with his marriage and adult life goals

• live in a nice house
• have a beautiful wife/family
• stability [read: monetary, social, etcetera]