i'll try to tell you if i ever softblock, but anxiety gets the better of me sometimes;; if i haven't approached you, possible reasons for me softblocking include:

• you've hurt my friends / are involved in drama with them (i may hardblock depending on the situation)
• you consistently don't warn for things on my blacklist or meet my dfi criteria
• [if we aren't close] your tweets are too nsfw or unsanitary for me to handle
• we don't interact and having a high follower count makes me anxious
• you share IDs with a close friend of mine and we aren't fully comfortable with that, though of course your identity is just as valid
• you may not have done anything, i just have 10 layers of trust issues and paranoia i'm really sorry