can use for me

• genderqueer
• agender
• agenderqueer
• woman (NOT around my family)
• bi/bisexual
• gray-ace/grey-ace
• polyamorous
• disabled
• autistic
• neurodivergent

use only as necessary descriptor

• fat
• queer
• AFAB
• ace spectrum
• chronically ill (prefer "has chronic illness")

only i can use this

• mentally ill (prefer person-first/"has" language for mental illness)
• psychotic (it's true but it's for me to reclaim)