- first of all, you gotta stop your self sorry bullshit. you're on your fucking own and if you don't stand up and start acting like the man you are nothing is gonna work out for you. so DO. YOUR. SHIT. stop sitting around waiting for someone to do it for you. rely only on yourself.
- get your ass out of your house more often. i don't care if you don't have anywhere specific to got, hop on your bike or walk around for a while. meet new places, discover your town again. get some sunlight, you look like a disgraceful vampire.
- life's too short for you to miss your moments because of a bad hair day. if it bothers you, GET A HAIRCUT AND STOP AVOIDING LIVING YOUR OWN LIFE. no one cares except you.
- start therapy. take it seriously. do not drop it. take your meds. care for yourself.
- for the love of GOD get yourself a stable schedule and STICK WITH IT. build a routine that makes you comfortable and fulfils your needs.
- dude you really need a job. you need to have your own money. even if it's not much - do it.
- use your job to pay for the new bike & ipod you deserve then become the french girl you once wanted to marry. actually this goes for everything - wanna eat something nice? buy it, eat it. not as a "treat yourself" but as a "don't mistreat yourself". you should have nice things.
- dye your hair, get new clothes, take more pictures, don't be afraid of expressing yourself. you have a lot say, so say it.
- sign up for your uncle's gym or don't - it doesn't matter, you should start exercising regardless. also, EAT LIKE A HUMAN BEING.
- start a new hobby that doesn't make you feel pressured - maybe photography. don't be afraid of experimenting with it. express yourself. build something you can look back to at the end of the year and feel proud of.
- if you don't go to college next year imma give up on you boy
- actually i'm not gonna pressure you to accomplish any of your goals. i mean, you HAVE to work on them - be more organized, be more focused, finish your projects, dedicate yourself to achieve the results you want. but if you can't do it, that's ok. we'll not make this year about what you can do, but about fixing yourself first. so don't feel like you need to excel at everything. be patient with your progress.
dec 7 2017 ∞
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