attraction to women seems to be secondary to men and masc-aligned folk. there is a clear preference for men, but it is greatly influence by multiple factors at once, not simply gender. gender has a factor in attraction, but is not the main factor. the difference between attraction to gender and gender presentation/aesthetic attraction is unclear. it is possible that overall attraction is towards men and men aligned, with attraction to women and women aligned being a more fluid experience (i.e. sometimes only a platonic or aesthetic attraction, then other times a romantic or sexual attraction).

personality and behaviors are a HUGE component in romantic and sexual attraction. aesthrtic atteaction occurs regardless of gender or bond. sexual attraction occurs primarily if not exclusively from bond. thus, it reflects the gender of whomever is the bondmate. otherwise it is body empathy instead of attraction.

preference: men, particularly queer men who align with "pretty boy" and "dad bod". attraction seems less gender based and more aesthetic and association based or personality based. there is still a notable preference for men and male-adjacent folk concerning initial attraction/draw, but ultimate factor in play is behavior and pleasing physical aesthetic.

attraction:

sexual

queerplatonic

aesthetic

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genderfluid demisexual pan-queerplatonic queer toric minic omnigay