dont follow if:

• you fit into basic dfi criteria (racist, homophobic, etc)
• youre under 15 (unless you know lily)
• youre uncomfortable with someone 18+ following you
• you wont tag miscarriage/hnk/etc for me

also:

• if youre a cishet male and i dont follow you first, i may block you, sorry
• if you have an hnk icon/layout i will block you
• if you put hnk on my tl untagged i WILL block you. i dont care how long we've been mutuals/friends, my health comes first