turn ons (nonsexual)

• emotional maturity
• confidence
• deep conversations
• will support me and not judge my ambitions
• wants me to coddle and spoil them
• logical and doesn't let emotions cloud their decisions
• both street and academically smart
• glasses/specs
• straight eyebrows
• curled mouth corners
• moderately submissive
• chiseled bones
• black/blond hair
• short hair on girls
• long hair on guys
• adventurous
• realistic
• ambitious
• willing to give me space and understand that we don't have to see and spend time with each other all the time to have a working relationship
• someone who will not find me scary, but see my dominance as something sexy and admirable
• blue/green eyes
• pitchy voices
• same sense of humor as mine
• opinionated
• rich
• affectionate but not in a clingy, childish way
• loves to write
• communicative
• no bullshit

turn offs (dealbreakers)

• smoking, alcoholism, drugs
• doesn't floss
• immature
• homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, racism
• unfunny
• slutshames, kinkshames, makeupshames, whatever
• not a conversationalist
• idealistic
• thinks respect comes with age
• thinks joking about rape is funny
• small-minded
• clingy and overly-sensitive
• childish
• wants to see me jealous just so they can prove that i cherish them
• bothered about my incapibility to show emotions
• wants to have many kids
• rude to service people
• likes snakes
• wants an open relationship
• overly-possessive (just the right amount is fine, let me talk to other people)
• controlling
• prone to mind games (it's either you like me or not)

turn ons (sexually)

• glasses/specs
• moaning/grunting/just any response lmao
• scissoring
• frottage
• kisses and makeouts
• bdsm
• roleplay
• hatesex
• rough sex
• clothed sex
• public sex

turns offs (sexually)

• shit and piss on the bed
• sounding
• furry shit
• diapers
• i know i said i don't like kinkshaming you go do you i'm just not into these stuff