• Loves Jesus & has a strong faith*
• Wants to wait to have sex*
• Same or similar values*
• Doesn’t smoke*
• Doesn’t drink to get drunk*
• Accepts me for who I am*
• Smart*
• Funny / Appreciate each other’s sense of humour*
  • Makes me laugh
• Handy man (ie: can fix his car; not a wuss)*
• Family man*
  • Wants kids / Open to adoption*
• Supportive*
• Honest*
• Positive*
• Trustworthy*
• Unconditional Love*
• Strong*
• Patient*
• Respectful & Responsible*
• Wants to grow spiritually/ emotionally/ physically with me*
• Has passion for what he does & loves*
• Independent yet dependent on each other*
• Taller than me
• Likes music*
• Likes my music (taste and/or band-wise)
• Likes traveling
• Can put up with my craziness*
• Can deal with each others family's* (deal at the least, not necessarily love-to-death)
• Attractive (to me at least (I need someone I can look at and be proud of) this seems superficial but its true)

a * means no compromise ( there are a lot) this will be hard to do but it is possible. the past does not so much matter, just now and the future.