This is an ever-changing list. It might be slightly rediculous, but it is a 'dream' man.

• funny
• fun
• adventerous
• ambitious
• determined
• intelligent
• practical
• passionate
• athletic (-ish)
• courageous
• artistic [or at least appreciative of the arts]
• tall [-er than me]
• bigger than me in general
• bearded
• dark hair (exceptions are possible)
• caring
• thoughtful
• likes my family
• likes his family
• conversationalist
• independent