DNFI:

• you know me irl
• you make trigger jokes
• you support dd/lg and/or c/gl
• you use slurs that you can't use
• you're any of my system members who aren't okay with doubles
• you're me or my ids
• you're over 25
• you're racist/homophobic/transphobic/terf/swerf/anti-sjw/etc.

ATFI:

• you're a cishet girl
• your name is wendy