2011--

• understanding
• provides good conversation
• insightful; emotionally intelligent
• honest, GENUINE
• sense of humor
• chemistry
• good kisser
• "marches to beat of own drum"

2015--

• respects women and womens choice
• loyal
• action-oriented
• accepts me as I am, yet helps guide me towards self-improvement but does not force change
• independent thinker

2017--

• communicative
  • emotionally secure enough that they will reach out first
  • emotional intelligence
  • clear in what they mean
• not stingy: whining about going dutch (you should have big boy money and big boy money habits)
• not manipulative, or someone that psychoanalyzes you
• not critical on my fashion choice (something I must practice too)
• realizes that we are 2 flawed individuals
• interest in people
• sensitive

2019–

• makes me feel secure
• can openly talk about my emotions without feeling ridiculed, honest conversations
• strong emotional awareness
• accepting
• compatible levels of weirdness (up to my level is best)
• late night convos/being last (or one of them) person he talks to before falling asleep
• afternoon texts
• makes the first move, wears heart on their sleeve