i don't have a very strict list of requirements for anyone following me, but i do have some requests and a head's up about things that discomfort me and other things that i will not tolerate.

please do not follow me if:

• you fit any "-phobic" description, you contribute to in-fighting (ace discourse, bi/pan discourse, pronoun discourse), or just generally are a mean or combative person.
• you have a problem with lgbt+ headcanons (i.e. "making them all gay is unrealistic!" or "that character can't be trans!"). all of the characters i write about are lgbt, be they trans or gay.
• you are a minor (under 18). i'm an adult; i write very nsfw things, i talk about very nsfw things, and it is not appropriate for you to follow or interact with me. please keep yourself safe as a child, and respect my safety and comfort as well.

just some things to note:

• other than incestuous or abusive ships (i.e. niecest, jiang cheng/wei wuxian, wen chao/wei wuxian, etc.), i will never hate on ships that i just don't like. just as a head's up, though, here are some of the more popular ships that i will not rt or write: xicheng, bingqiu (poly ships including them are still well-loved), sangyu, sangyao, and xisang.
• wei wuxian is a man, therefore he is not lan wangji's "wife." i don't care that mxtx wrote it; her story is amazing, but it's not without its flaws. please don't force mlm (or wlw) into heteronormative relationships, even if it's just a joke!