The Good:

• I enjoy simple dates over extravagant ones
  • though extravagant ones are nice occasionally
• I don't need a phone call/text/IM everyday
  • Though it is nice
• I like being held, hugged, kissed, told "I love you" often
• I hate the "you hang up first, no you hang up first" conversation. Goodbye is goodbye damnit

The Bad:

• I have the irrational need to be right
  • and I will argue this need; even when I'm wrong
• I'm sarcastic and not afraid to use it
  • I don't always know when I go too far
• I'm slightly obsessive compulsive
• I'm not always the best at making conversation over the phone/internet
  • I work better in person (usually)

The Could Go Either Way:

• I hate making decisions
• I'm not quick to say "I love you"
  • but once I do, I'll say it often
• I like to think in terms of forever
  • though this is usually irrational

The Doesn't Usually Apply to the Present

• I'll insist on a "future" in Chicago
• I'm unsure about the whole children situation
• I want a house I know we can't afford right away