- Never apologize simply for taking up space (example when passing someone else in doorway)
- always smile and ask "how are you?" when you see anyone you know, especially those you are not so fond of
- Be polished, positive, and unrevealing in everything but your creative work
- let your achievements stand alone
aug 8 2013 ∞
aug 9 2013 +
- Do unto others as I would have them do to me
- Be compassionate: seek to understand, not to judge
- Understand that the world is vast, with many different lived experiences: my own views and values arose of my unique and narrow experience, and therefor cannot possibly be projected onto, forced upon, or expected of others whose path I have not walked
jun 27 2013 ∞
jul 8 2013 +
- callipygian- having perfectly proportioned buttocks
- cachinnate- to laugh loudly, immodestly, resoundingly, compulsively
- chthonic- of or pertaining to the underworld and its deities and spirits; dark, primitive, mysterious, infernal
- compunction- pang of doubt or guilt
- formication- a tactile hallucination that things are crawling on or under ones skin
- algedonic- characterized by or relating to pain especially as associated with pleasure
sep 5 2012 ∞
jan 6 2013 +
- The Diner Journal
- Swallow Magazine
- The Art of Eating
- Condiment Magazine
- Gourmet
- Kinfolk Magazine
- New York Food Book Fair
- Lucky Peach food & literary journal
- Whole Larder Love by Rohan Anderson
- College & Cook
- Smitten Kitchen cookbook
apr 18 2012 ∞
dec 25 2013 +
- Breakfast at Tiffany's
- The Labrynth
- Blue Velvet
- I like killing flies
feb 1 2012 ∞
aug 10 2013 +
- to write a novel
- to be an actress in a film
- to be the editor of a feminist fashion/life magazine
- to be very very skinny
- to work at babeland
- to play Maureen in RENT
- open an english language bookstore/coffee shop/art gallery/ performance space in a spanish-speaking city
sep 9 2011 ∞
oct 30 2011 +
- Rome, Italy (eat. dance. see art. speak.)
- Israel (taglit. go to markets. jerusalem.)
- New Zealand (backpack. swim.)
- San Juan, PR (family ties.)
- Bogota, Colombia (family ties)
- Australia (see a baobob tree.)
- California (hug a redwood.)
- Cypress Gardens in North Carolina
aug 29 2011 ∞
jun 18 2012 +
- lolita-love the titles/photographs
- party tights
- pneumonia white
- luxyland-perfection.
- fashion for writers
- wasted rita
- doorknockers
- free people blog- great DIY apartment decoration ideas
- echo india
- womanhouse zine
- froufrouu.com
- wolves and bucks
- gotagirlcrush.com
- closetvisit.com
- a girl named hermia
- this is naive
- allison eats
- amyrosespiegel.com
- feelslikewhitelightning.com
- sousstyle.com
aug 29 2011 ∞
jul 20 2013 +
- glasses
- suspenders
- Nigella Lawson's The Domestic Goddess
- gold nike high top sneakers
- purple lipstick
- leather pants
- leather skirt
- chunky gold hoops
- white button up
- slips for layering
- funky necklaces
aug 29 2011 ∞
nov 13 2011 +
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- outdoor dinners with friends
- making holiday traditions
- hostessing dinners, parties, holidays
- planning halloween costumes for my children
- wedding
aug 19 2013 ∞
aug 19 2013 +
- f.lux- adjusted screen brightness at night for more natural lighting conducive to sleep
- self control- allows you to temporarily block distracting web pages when you need to get shit done
- hidden facebook- google chrome extension that blocks facebook's ability to show others when you have read their messages
jun 30 2013 ∞
jun 30 2013 +
- The Magus John Fowles
- A Perfect Day for Bananafish J.D. Salinger
- Lavender and Want Caitlyn Byrne
- The Joy of Writing Sex Elizabeth Benedict
- Less Than Zero Brett Easton Ellis
- Mrs. Dalloway Virginia Woolf
- The Hours Michael Cunningham
- The Virgin Suicides Jeffrey Eugenides
jan 4 2013 ∞
jul 8 2013 +
- Madonna- Edvard Munch
- Le Due Frida- Frida Kahlo
- The Embrace- Schiele
- The Malicious- Schiele
- The Sleep of Reason Produces Monsters- Goya
- The Minotaur- Salvador Dali
- Shirley Temple- Salvador Dali
- Bond of Union- M.C. Escher
- Waves- Sara Rossberg
sep 5 2012 ∞
sep 5 2012 +
- lingerie
- stationary
- blank notebooks
- earrings
- pretty mugs
jun 3 2012 ∞
jun 3 2012 +
- bigbigbigthings.com
- aim is to bring people together making, seeing, doing everything is sold with this aim,
- ex stationary to write a letter to someone,
- cupcakes to brighten someone's day,
- wall of things to do in the community,
- zines
- common space
- can buy for self with self care angle
- this goal combined with the handmade/local artists, photography, humanizes and personalizes retail experience
- really cool decor
- to find out something
- live music
- space to read and write
- coffee
- really cool fashion magazines
nov 1 2011 ∞
may 13 2012 +
- speak spanish, french, italian
- learn to bake
- learn to sew
- send handwritten letters
- take photographs, learn to use digital camera well
- keep journaling
- wake up in the early morning
- keep things clean and organized
- stop procrastinating
- make mix cds, baked goods, handmade books, personal zines for other people
- accept people's limits
- accept things as they are
- know when to walk away
- press flowers into books
- play with baby gorillas
- learn to knit
- go back to Tulgey Wood or to Camp Zeno
- be outside in beauty
aug 29 2011 ∞
sep 7 2011 +
- The General In His Labryinth Gabriel Garcia Marquez
- One Hundred Years Of Solitude Gabriel Garcia
- The House Of The Spirits Isabel Allende
- Lolita Vladimir Nabocov
- The Virgin Suicides Jeffery Eugenides
- Boricua Roberto Santiago
- Poetry of Sylvia Plath Sylvia Plath
- The Unbearable Lightness of Being Milan Kundera
- The Lord of The Rings J.R.R. Tolkein
- The Motorcycle Diaries Che Guevara
- The Dialectic of Sex Shulamith Firestone
- Intercourse Andrea Dworkin
- The Girl Project Kate Engelbrech
- 101 Things I learned in Culinary School Luis Eguares and Matthew Frederick
- Mother Night Kurt Vonnegut
- The Edible Woman
- Things Fall Apart Chinua Achebe
- Turn of Mind Alice LaPlante
- tiny beautiful things Cheryl Strayed
- How to be an explorer of the world Keri Smith
- Steal like an Artist Austin Kleon
aug 29 2011 ∞
jun 6 2013 +
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- painted nails
- painted toes
- flowers on bedside table
- sleepy kisses
- long meals
- completing a workout
- sore muscles after exercise
- compliments
jul 8 2013 ∞
jul 9 2013 +
- Make a summer reading list and read through it
- Write every single day
- Ultimate Fit and yoga
- Blog
- Cook through Budget Bytes
- 1200 calories/ day
- Become a morning person
- Make video montages
- Make $
may 10 2013 ∞
jun 18 2013 +
- struggles with "dark side"
- sex makes her feel whole, balances
- physically splits with "dark side" during sleep paralysis, is watched/confronted by her
- multiple personality disorder/borderline personality disorder
- whore of babylon, mythical evil females
- salem witch trials
- FGM
- caterpillars/butterflies-ate live caterpillars in a bowl when she was young
- wants to be saved
- should be a romance
- sex makes her feel whole, completely submissive as a way to feel no responsibility for dark side, "daddy"
oct 20 2011 ∞
oct 22 2011 +
- magical realism
- altering memory and reality by lying, limits of that
- dreams
- family, generations, destiny
- non possessive love
- the power of sex
- loving the whole vs loving parts
- dichotomies in personalities
- evil vs mental illness
- anxiety
- becoming strangers
- stopping time
- the eternal movement of time
- escaping
- objectifying/simplifying people
- two people doing the same thing together at the same time, having completely different experiences
- personal voice/ striving to express identity on own terms
aug 29 2011 ∞
sep 2 2011 +
- getting to know someone new
- being outside somewhere beautiful
- new photographs
- delicious meals
- pretty outfits
- sex
- good books
- long conversations
- walking alone
- laughing
- making things
- making things for other people
- vivid dreams
- seeing monkeys
- starry nights
- snowy woods
- feminist activism
aug 29 2011 ∞
sep 1 2011 +
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