we are plural, disabled, and somewhat disordered. we're planning to see how long we keep up with making lists.. i like the style.

we are an adult. several hundred form our number, though many are not online. we will include the poster in the title, after the underscore.

_ knightspeak [they/them unless specified] -- our collective signoff

_zombiegrrl [she/her, dye/color, blitzed/out, pow/pow, pup/puppy]

_thetaxidermyoflewandme [he/him]

_ctrlshift [any pronouns]

_ifyougiveamouseacookie

_oxenfree [he/him]

• when you want to actually help, replace "i don't know what to do" with "what do you need right now?"
• don't make assumptions. listen to what people tell you, and ask if you're unsure
• boundaries aren't a turnstile for you to hop. if you want to get through them, you have to earn it. even then, focus on what's put on your side of the wall instead of brute forcing toward what YOU want
• stay equal. make an effort to be. treat others like their input matters
• if you interrupt someone, circle back to what they were saying and genuinely engage with it.
• don't make every mistake about your own guilt. tripping over your feet further doesn't help you learn, and it makes the other person feel like they have to pick you back up and set you right
• fucking write things down if you have to....