as an ace/aro, i don't think i'm qualified to talk about attractiveness, but i'm choosing to interpret this as qualities that i would be incompatible with.

• arrogance
• flakiness
• insincerity
• vanity, meaning, obsession over others' perception of them, be it the chase of superiority over others, or attempts to soothe their own insecurities
• willful ignorance
• incuriosity