» Phlegmatic-melancholic « ♡ ♡

• They take the path of least resistance whenever possible. They so desperately wish for peace, for everyone to get along, and to avoid conflict at all costs.
• They are tenacious and cannot let things go, because 'good enough' is not good enough. They strive for perfection.
• They are very pessimistic, and assume the worst due to these unrealistic standards.
• They really, really do not wish to be a bother to others, and always put others first. This is due to a deep-rooted unease about asserting themselves rather than a lack of confidence, or a conscious desire to be a 'nice person'.
• They are quick to apologise for any mistakes that they may have made, and will sacrifice their own happiness to ensure that others are happy.
• They try and word things in a way that is not offensive to others. The will be more supportive than critical.
• They can enjoy spending time with others, but this drains their energy, and they need alone time in order to recharge.
• They will blame themselves if mistakes are made, even if it was someone else's fault, just to make others feel better and more at ease.