Collective Boundaries

Name Boundaries

• Petnames:
  • ./j and /p: Ask
  • ./r and /sx: No (partners only)
• Nicknames: Ask (boundary varies by alter)
• Flirting
  • ./j and /p: No/Ask if close
  • ./r and /sx: No (partners only)

General Online Boundaries:

• DMs:
  • No for anyone under 16 unless we've know you as friends for a long time.
  • 16-17: Not unless it's about an art commission or moderation purposes.
  • 18+: Yes
• Pings/Mentions: Yes
• Friend requests: Ask
• Front requests: Ask. Never trigger an alter to front without permission. This goes for partners as well.
• VC/FT: Ask to VC in servers. Only close friends and partners may ask to VC in DMs. No Facetiming with anyone other than our partners though.
• Teasing: If close
• Roleplaying: Ask
• Asking for:
  • Phone number: Partners only
  • Social medias: If friends/partners
  • For location/To meet up: Only if close
  • Pictures of us: No (partners only)

Other:

• Asking about personal info(including, but not limited to, pictures of us + location): Not unless close
• Venting in DMs: No. Partners may be exempt from this , just ask.
• Rambling: Sure! We like to listen, but unless you ask we likely won't give any input unless we're knowledgable on the topic.
• NSFW conversation: Only if bodily 18+; do not ask us anything NSFW if not partners. Some of us are uncomfortable with and may leave if a conversation steers towards NSFW topics
• Other Stuff:
  • We're okay with introjects of the same source
• Asking about source:
  • Trauma: No (partners/close friends only)
  • Memories: Only if we're close; if it's relevant to conversation we might share though :>