this year's focus:

    • events & experiences = have somethings special planned every weekend! (even if it is small)
    • reduce screen time = no social media on phone, monthly challenges/experiments (see here)

โ€” experiences & events

  • โœ” go ice skating
  • โ˜ go swimming
  • โ˜ go to pride
  • โ˜ go to the cinema 3 times (0/3)
  • โ˜ go to the public library or gaming library 5 times (0/5)
  • โ˜ go to therme
  • โ˜ go to a ball or other dancing event
  • โ˜ go clubbing
  • โ˜ go to a convention
  • โ˜ go to a fair
  • โ˜ go to trampoline park / bowling / ...
  • โ˜ go camping with my darling
  • โ˜ go to 2 concerts, shows or plays
  • โ˜ have a picnic in the park
  • โ˜ spend a few days with my friend James

โ€” fitness & health

  • โ˜ be active/exercise at least 30 minutes per week in 30 out of 52 weeks (log link coming)
  • โ˜ meditate ???
  • โ˜ take a walk almost every week (10+ mins)
  • โ˜ go climbing/slacklining/skating/... 12 times (0/10)
  • โ˜ plan climbing day ahead every month (and go most months)
  • โ˜ do dentist & gyn check-ups
  • โ˜ do a full health check-up
  • โ˜ do intermittent fasting (11.30 a.m. - 7.30 p.m.) in early work shift weeks
  • โ˜ do stretching/yoga in the morning in late work shift weeks
  • โ˜ donate blood/plasm 3 times
  • โ˜ take part in a (charity) run
  • โ˜ finally make a proper list/book of my favourite recipes
  • โ˜ try out 5 new recipes (0/5)
  • โ˜ track all sick days and doctor's visits

โ€” media & learning

  • โ˜ read some good books :3 (see goodreads)
  • โ˜ create an enjoyable 2025 playlist
  • โ˜ start 3 new tv shows (0/3)
  • โ˜ do one phone-free day almost every month (done: -)
  • โ˜ watch a series in Spanish or watch 3 movies in Spanish
  • โ˜ revise first aid stuff in summer

โ€” style & living

  • โ˜ buy/get 5 really cool pieces of clothing/accessoires
  • โ˜ go thrifting/clothes swap 5 times (0/5)
  • โ˜ make a list (with photos) of all my favourite outfits
  • โ˜ try out 5 new board games (0/5)
  • โ˜ keep my desk tidy
  • โ˜ keep my work stuff separate and hidden from view
  • โ˜ have (almost) monthly date nights/days with special activities (done: -)
  • โ˜ do a gratitude exercise at least once a week
  • โ˜ do Veganuary
  • โ˜ move in with my girlfriend <3 (and declutter beforehand)

โ€” creative

  • โ˜ get back into writing for fun
  • โ˜ draw 3 pictures or write 30 pages (0/3)
  • โ˜ make a fanvideo
  • โ˜ try a new hobby
  • โ˜ do some more embroidery/crocheting
  • โ˜ cosplay again
  • โ˜ make a photo book for my anniversary with my gf
  • โ˜ do Cosplay photoshoots (Luz & Vaggie)
  • โ˜ plan and play a TTRPG with my friends

โ€” finances

  • โ˜ save 30% of my monthly income (~600โ‚ฌ)
  • โ˜ spend max. 150โ‚ฌ per month on groceries most months
  • โ˜ spend ๏นค400โ‚ฌ on clothes (30โ‚ฌ/month)
  • โ˜ spend ๏นค500โ‚ฌ on furniture & decorations (40โ‚ฌ/month)
  • โ˜ spend ๏นค600โ‚ฌ on restaurants/takeaway (50โ‚ฌ/month)
  • โ˜ most money spent on experiences (except for groceries)
  • โ˜ do 1 no-spend month

(list adapted from (petra)[])

dec 31 2025 ∞
jan 6 2026 +